Ex's craxy new woman

So, my ex and I broke up a few months back, he had feelings for someone else, and the homewrecker had feelings for him too, even broke off an engagement for him. But whatever.

Him and I never would have worked, for 3 yrs he treated me like a slave. I did the cooking cleaning, paid the bills etc.

The month before we actually broke up, I was packing my things, and he sat me down and promised to try, blah blah blah. so I stayed, but something wasn't sitting right with him being friends with her, and I'm not a jealous person, but I had a feeling something was going on.

my ex and I decided to meet up this wed so I can get some stuff back, however, on facebook she went in to his profile and is harassing me. I at this point had to block and delete my ex. but now the B**** is turning things around on me.

and acting like she knew what was going on "our" relationship, she only knows what he told her, I know it wasnt' my place to say anything, but I told her, he tried running me over, and he's a pot head and she should go smoke a joint with him,...I know that wasnt' very mature, but now I'm in such a bad mood,

I dont' want him back,but I think the homewrecker thinks I do.


I've tried forgetting about my ex, but thing was he was my best friend for years before we dated. and I miss my friend, not my ex.

Is there anyway of getting back a friendship and forgetting that we dated, or because she's crazy just forget about everything????

You poor woman

Scary, we share a very similar situation with our exes. We broke up in February because of another girl who's a total whackjob. Since they've been dating she's insistant that all of his exes are in love with him and one of my friends, who is one of his exes, ended up being labelled a homewrecker because they were friends after their break up. I haven't had that treatment because I diminished all contact with him immediately, but I imagine it must be hell for you.

I'd suggest trying to distance yourself from them for now or she'll keep trying to accuse you of being the 'other woman'. I did the same as you, I deleted him from Facebook and had to block him for four months so he could get the message, but as soon as I unblocked him, he re-added me. He's now "interested" in what's going on with my new boyfriend and avoids the subject all together when I ask about his new girl.

She does sound very insecure and I believe the reason why she blames you is because she refuses to believe it's him. Some time away from them both will do you good and finally get it into her head that you're not trying to get him back. Focus on your new man and when the time is right, get in contact with your ex again and she'll stop harassing you. If she doesn't, threaten to get a restraining order on her.

Hope this message was of some help.
Ly x

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The other thing is, I'm seeing a new guy, who's more my type, we are both outgoing and like to try new things.


I'm still friends with my ex's sister, and she kinda knows my life style right now, and it seems like everytime I'm going to see the "new" guy, my ex calls me that morning. Now I don't know if his sister is telling him, or if just happens that way.

but its usually for him to ... at me one way or another.

The other day I was laying in bed in the middle of the night thinking, Am I ready to be in a relationship when my ex is still involved in my life.