Can anyone help on ex boyfriends?!

Hi everyone I'm new on here, and I'm really looking for some advice! It's quite a long story, but here it goes, and any help will be so appreciated!

Well I'm 18 and broke up with my first boyfriend at the start of November, due to a lot of reasons including quite a big age gap of 6 years. We work together and have stayed friends. Recently we have started flirting with eachother again, and has resulted in us kissing when out together on two separate occasions, and him wanting to sleep with me again, just casually. We act exactly the same as we did when we were together when we are at work together, by touching eachother and hugging eachother all the time. The problem is, is that I really can't move on easily and want him back, so am finding it hard to resisit when he asks me to sleep with him! (We havent gone that far yet!) I have been on two dates with two different guys since we broke up but can't start a new relationship as my ex boyfriend is messing me around and giving me constant mixed signals!

Can anyone help me on what I should do?!

Lack of communication

i really think that you should sit down and talk to him. ask him how he feels about you. if you guys dont talk then you will never know what he thinks about you. try that and then let me know how that goes. i'll be glad to give you anymore info. i hope it turns out good!!!!!

Reply to angel2elm

angel2elm, thankyou for replying! I'm really pleased that you'll be glad to help me as this is driving me mad!

Lack of communication was always the problem in our relationship, we never talked about anything, not even sex - we just got on with it, which did annoy me a bit... I had only ever slept with one guy before him, just once, so he was a lot more experienced than me. I'm worried that this has something to do with why he broke up with me aswell, as he waited a 3/4 months until I was ready and he broke up with me only a month and a half after we started sleeping together

I also don't like showing how I (still) feel about him when I'm with him, I always talk about new men I meet but we just have a general laugh, like normal mates. It's really getting me down, and if you still feel like you could help me, I'd be so grateful! even private message me if you want!

Mmmmmmmmmm

I think you should shag him as much as possible it will be great fun while it lasts - like a pair of shoes you would never buy a pair without trying them on first!!