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Fiancé looking at porn

 

I Keep Going On My Laptop & Discovering My Fiancé Has Been Looking At Porn.. Everytime I Confront Him He Denies It But I Know He's Lying.. I Don't Want To Loose Him But The Way He's Going He's Going To Can AnyOne Give Me Advice On What To Do.. I Feel That I Don't Deserve The Truth


 

Hiya

Female perspective here - He probably lies about it because he knows you don't like it and in his head it will avoid an argument but he just isn't looking at the bigger picture and thinking its best just to be open about it. He might even be embarrassed about it.

Don't let it get you down. Apparently most men don't look because they fancy the women or anything like that, but more because they like the act of sex. Simple minds, eh?!

Try and be more relaxed about it and you will probably find he ends up being more open with you.

Xxx

 

Porn

I don't understand why women get so upset when their man looks at porn. Porn is a lesson in sex. I wish I had access to it when I was younger, my inexperience was too much for one girlfriend. Porn would have shown me the correct way to perform and give me more ideas/ways to keep her happy.

Lets face it, he can't dump you for someone he sees on screen. You should watch it with him and then you can discuss what you would like and what you don't fancy etc.

Your relationship will be all the better for it.

 

Live with people, don't try to change them

You can't change people to suit the way you live or the way you feel things should be done. Looking at porn is a natural thing for some people, and in itself isn't harmful at all. Don't try to force your fiance into admitting something that he considers private or trying to stop him doing something he enjoys. Think of it as smoking, the best way to quit is to have a distraction, and generally speaking the more someone tells you not to do it, the more you are determined to carry on.

 

He will ... every woman he see when the chance comes

he will end up in another womans bed even though yoy two get married. his ... is troublesome and his eyes looks at anything under the skirt. loose him now or you will loose him in the future.
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