Hello!

I need help or at least what you think about the behaviour of a man.
I have spent a night with a man that I know for a few month (but we have seen each other just 2 or 3 time before that night). I knew that he lives abroad, so it was probably just a night and nothing more.
But I was a little bit disapointed by his behaviour. The day after, he was really sweet, ask me to send my phone number and tell me that he will call when he will be in my country and kiss me the sweetest way.
We send each other e-mails that he always ends with "kisses" or "big hug". I also wrote me that I can call him if I would like to go to his country.
But when I ask him if I can come he told me that he doesn't have time for the moment but he will look his schedule (I still didn't get any answer about that).
I knew that he was supposed to come this week. I have asked him by e-mail to be sure and showed my interest. He answered "yes" and nothing more. I suppose that he doesn't want to see me as my phone remain silent and I didn't get any news.
I am completely disapointed, why did he say and wrote things he didn't want to do? I don't understand. If, he just didn't want to see me again why did he do that? If he didn't I haven't hope nothing but now it's different and I wonder why?

Hi!
I am sorry that you are disapointed at this moment. My opinion is that he likes you , did enjoyed with you but something is missing still. He did continue the comunications with you wich is good,but maybe he is hiding something or having a girlfriend in the contry he live in so he doesnt wants you to come there. However avoiding to invite you is always a bad sign. Maybe he just wanted a little fling with you. Just get over him ... He is not close to you and you know how they say far from the eyes far from the heart. I am sure you willl find a better guy. Dont write to him anymore and wait for him to write to you or call you if he does that, or even better if he invites you then that shows that he was serious and has some interest in you .if he doesnt then life go on, you lii find a good guy.
Good luck
Best wishes -Ida.

Don't be sad may be he it not the right man, my opain don't talk to him
untill he call you or send e-mail first
men don't like easy girl you must let him search for you
not you search for him
i hope you will find good man some day