Flirting with a gay guy - what does it mean?

I'm married and having a few issues with my husband. All of these stem from me fancying a guy at work (who is gay and in a relationship). Told hubby about it and he said he was disappointed. Thought it had gone away but starting to have feelings for this gay guy again. We have been flirting lots over the past few weeks and collegues have mentioned it too, so it's not just me hoping! Any advice would be good. Cheers

I do too.

Hey just read your message.
I do the same my best mate Alex is gay and we flirt all the time, we've even kissed when drunk. It doesnt mean anything the way I see it is your comfortable around him and flirting with the opposite sex is second nature regardless of who they are or there sexual oriantation so don't worry about it. The only reason you think you like him is because he's giving you attention. Would you feel the same if he didnt flirt with you?