Feel so lonely

OK where to start?

Right well a few weeks ago we had this rather dishey Policeman come to our house (about some trouble that happened where we live) But all the time he was talking he kept looking at me (my mum and sister were in the same room BTW, and it was them that had asked him questions, so really he should be answering them. IYSWIM! )

ANYWAY..he said something really strange, my mother said about this lady that lives out the back and he looked at me, smilied and said

"Yeah I know her, I think she has a thing for me!" All the while looking me up and down! (Not that I mind you understand)

So a week goes by and I see him at the back of our house, I was in the garden and it was a gorge hot day, he came over to the fence and shouted !_____ (my name!) you look hot in that skirt!" and smiled, now I happen to think that he actually meant hot as in temperature, but my sis thinks he meant hot as in hello nurse!..I don't know, I never know what to make of things like that...no good with flirting and body language (reason why I'm posting this! )

So the day after he comes back again, no reason for him to be on the estate, he just turns up! He's driving round the corner (level with the side of my house) when this girl (who was about 17 and VERY pretty) shouted him and waved, but instead of waving to her, he beeped his horn at me and gave me a lil wink

I have seen him everywhere I've been the last 2 weeks (I mean everywhere, even in Asda today!)

I REALLY like him, he is so handsome and sexy! But as stoopid as this sounds, don't know what to do, my mother says I am imagining things that weren't there, and then my sister says that she thinks he WAS flirting with me and I should go for it and ask him on a date (which would be the first date for 6 years! )

So what do you guys think? Please be gentle, I already feel a little embarressed for having to ask! I mean I am 26 I should know if he's flirting or not right? Just wanted your advice really.

Steer clear my dear!

Hmmm. It sounds to me like he definitely is flirting with you, but whether you should go there or not is another matter. I would definitely NOT ask him out as it sounds like he is pretty confident, so if he wants you, HE can show it.

But really faeriewitch, I am sorry to say, as you obviously like him, but he sounds like a right sleazebag. I might have this wrong, I wasn't there, but what sort of man makes a comment - during a professional visit! - to virtual strangers, about another woman fancying him? It's incredibly arrogant. It sounds as though he needs to go around feeling he can have anyone he wants - do not play into the hands of a man like this!

You can do much better - there are lots of dishy men out there and whatever this policeman sees when he looks at you, other men are bound to see it too!

Good luck x