Is he interested in me or not? sooo confused!
I really hope someone might be able to shed some light on this. i've fallen for this bloke at work. i've worked there six months. When i first started working there, we were really flirty and just a few weeks ago, he asked me if i would go to the work's "do" with him. It was only a BBQ but we got on really well and i picked up on signals that he liked me.nOthing happened though!
While we were there, he asked me if i'd like to go on this big night out that him and his mates were having a few weeks later, and i said yes i'd love to.
Then about a week and a half later, he seemed to go cold and stand offish, for no reason at all.
Then two weeks later he mentioned the night out again to me, and just said "We are going out around town tonight to that club" and i just said "oh, cool! That sounds wikid" waiting for him to say "are u coming then?" but he never did.
People have said he was probably looking for my reaction and that i should have said "I'd like to go!" but i didnt wanna invite myself!(especially as he'd been a bit "cool" with me before).
Also he said to me, on another occasion "you should come out round town tonight" but he said it like he was half joking, so again i didnt know what to say.
I know i must sound really slow on the uptake here.
Now i realise how stupid and slow i am and now every time i flirt with him he doesnt respond and doesnt seem to want anything to do with me.What should i do? Should i say something?
i feel like i've missed the boat - or maybe he was never that interested in the first place? Is it possible to get his interest back now the moment's gone - or is that it?
To make things more complicated i'm in a lng term relationship and im not happy(this guy knows this).
Please advise i am so confused. I like him sooo much n it's doing my head in seeing him every day!!
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