Where do i go from here?

hi! am new here x
i was dating a man thru the summer we had sex a couple of times before splitting up at bank holiday. i then discovered i was pregnant , i told him, he wasnt happy but assured me he would support me thru the pregnancy. i started bleeding the next day and told him, he didnt respond.i had a miscarriage this weekend i havent let him know,as he didnt respond before, i cant be bothered to humiliate myself further. but now i feel its "unfinished business" and dont know how to move forward from this. i feel that he hasnt had any of the grief i had and has got away with it. i realise we were both careless - we used withdrawal method! but i am stunned he hasnt acknowledged that i was olsing the 'baby'. im trying my best not to contact him and am trying to keep as occupied as poss, any ideas anybody?!
thanks for listening

Move on

so sorry to hear about your miscarriage.must have been really hard for you to go thru this alone. it seems to me that the man is by no means bothered by you or your situation, which is kinda sad. its better for you to cut all ties with him, erase his number and get on with your life. the more you keep going back to the times you spent with him, the worse you will feel. once and for all break off the bond. keeping busy is a good way to do this!
big hugs

Spot on!

Hi, thanks hon, i'm sad about the miscarriage but it all happened so fast, i never really had time to comprehend being pregnant, i was excited for a few hours then i had a sinking feeling deep inside and knew it wasnt going to end with a bouncing baby! ur dead right x i had erased all his numbers and text messages as i didnt trust myself not to start being vengeful. funny enough he texted me last night after i'd posted on here, saying "sorry for being a b*stard , i'm now ready to talk" i sent suitably cutting reply and doubt i'll hear from him again in the nr future! i'm still angry but will get over it, i'm just glad i found out wat a coward he is so that i wouldnt harbour any romantic fantasies about a happy ever after scenario. hopefully i will rebuild trust in men (pah!) and one day will be lucky enough to have a family of my own.
thanks again xx

I think he needs to know

However you feel about this man, he was fleetingly a part of the babies life too, and I think he needs to know what has happened.

Men react in very different ways to women and it's possible he was freaking out about the whole situation. Don't assume that he didn't care because he may have done

Sorry to hear about you losing the baby and hope you find love and happiness elsewhere

I know!

hi rinibop yes i did tel him that i miscarried on fri he didnt reply im sure he was freaking out i have tried to make allowances for him but i guess the rage is still too fresh for me.som of my friends hav been making excuses on his behalf but i spose its different for me as i feel like i have been slighted! i doubt i wil hear from him again as i wasnt very forgiving in my reply, i didnt call him any names but made it clear i was unhappy about his ignoring my messages wen i was miscarrying. im sure hes relieved now and hopefully i can move past this anger at some point.
thanks for ur reply xxx