Guys..pls help give me ure insight. im totally lost.

Hi, Pls help to give some of ure opinion. Im totally lost in this situation.

Jane and Amy known this guy for almost the same time. For some period of time, guy and Amy quite close together, always seen together everywhere as they are going to the same religious organization. Even there is a gossip that Amy is actually taken by the guy. But this is only gossip. They are close, but hvnt really bf/gf yet.

The guy also gave flower & went out for dinner on valentine day to Amy. There were a gossip that they are together.

Then Jane went holiday for about couple weeks. Once Jane back from holiday, she felt that guys reaction towards her bit diff. He tried to give hint that he cares and gv more attention, as well as try to find ways to meet up. At the same time, other people could see (in that organization) that guy and Amy not as close as before.

Jane and guys doesnt go to the same religious organization, they only meet up when there is a class.

What do u think of this situation guys?
Is the guy actually get rejected by the girl and moving forward to Jane?
But if he does, isn ... that he needed time to recover from rejection?
Or he realize that the one he likes is actually Jane and not that much on Amy?

The guy and Amy still talks, but dont looks as close as before.

Please help, as im totally lost in this situation..

Much appreciated

Ru jane?

1)r jane and amy friends?
2)does jane like the guy?
3)how would amy feel if jane/guy get it on?

if jane likes him she need to find out if he and amy definately over for sure . if jane likes him then why not get 2gether?

if jane/amy are friends then jane should wait a few months b4 they get it on, although it sound like guy and amy werent too serious

Yes..

Actually the main point is,
Jane felt guys reaction diff after back from holiday.
try to be closer, mentioned special frendz, say the guy misses her, asking out,etc.

Actually Jane just would like to know if u guys think he got rejected by other girl and switch his "action" to Jane.
As Jane know he used to be close with this girl before.

Isnt it strange when a guy could switch his "affection" so fast into other girl.

Will ths situation normal to a guy?

The biggest problem that Jane faced is that she scared the guy was playing "nice" between the two girls.

Jane lost her trust to that guy and unsure if his reaction is genuine.

Before holiday, the guy sometimes (more than 2 times) cancelled or even coming late to the appointment made without any calls or sms. Thats why Jane hv a negative impression on the guy.

but after holiday, he shows that he misses her, be more caring n attentive, call special frendz, wants to meet up, etc.

this is the actual problem tht Jane faced. She is unsure if she has to gv a chance for that guy again.

so... any idea y his behaviour suddenly changed?

You guys can assume I am Jane

Thank You soo much for all advice.