from this summer, my boyfriend will be going on a gap year abroad and i dont know what will become of our relationship. I really love him so much and we have been through a lot together. I would go with him except i havent got the money so i intend to work once the xams are over. We've had light conversations about when he goes abroad. He said that, if we are still together then he will not hook up with other girls when out there, but that after 6 months or so, it would be hard for him not to have a physical relationship with someone out there.... Also, he has an ex over there, so im worried he will see her.... The only reason they split up was because they lived on opposite sides of the world.... i dont knwo what to do. Should i let him go before he leaves, or stay with him and wait for a year? Should i let him have relationships when he's abroad? He says he truly loves me and often asks if we will get married, proposing to me. does that mean he'd like us to have a future togetehr? i dont know what decision to make about us....

Any thoughts please?

Hey hun, take it from someone older & wiser he wants it all! I'm not saying he doesn't love you but what he is asking, is for you to sit at home like the good little girlfriend while he's out having fun and he is basically pre warning you he will not be faithful. If you agree to this & don't make a stand he will cheat on you. Sorry! You have 2 choices; be strong & end it if he really does love you he will come back to you. If you can't end it lay down some ground rules. explain that either he behaves or you can't continue this relationship again if he loves you he will promise to be faithful. My boyfriend lives 300 miles away and we have been together for 18 months. In that time I've seen him three times. we keep our relationship going by talking lots. Long distance can work but there must be ground rules & trust. Good luck!

If he really loves you he wont cheat on you. Its that simple. He broke up with the other girl so at least he owes you a bit of respect while you are together. If he wants to be with her, then you deserve to know. However from what you have said, I wouldn't raise my hopes!!

girl don't give up girl imean if he really loved u he wouldn't cheat on this girl with a another girl that is just dum.