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i am 40 years old and a VIRGIN!!!
my husband is 20 and we wud like to ahve sex but we're both afraid of getting hurt....
advice pls

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Getting it on!

i know like it doesn't appear that time is on your side, but i wouldn't rush anything. Getting straight to it is probably going cause a little stress for both of you and you may not enjoy it either.

Its probs best if you just take time to become more intimate with eachother in small steps and this shouldn't be all in one night. i.e. over several days/weeks. start off with:

1. kissing
2. hugging
3. caressing
4. massages
5. spooning
6. maybe oral sex
7. sex sex

i think the secret is to enjoy yourselves and have fun, so maybe something like naked twister could be fun. You may not enjoy sex the first time, but don't worry about it - practice makes perfect. Remember this is only my opinion, to go with your gut instinct and to always take precautions.

One to add

i've got one to add to the list above take abath or a shower together.
thats how a friand of mine got started.

My babby

my boyfreind was usibg me for sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



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