Use confidence.
look I no what you mean about doubting yourself and your powers of attraction I had a real self confidence problem a while back but what I found in the end was it doesn't matter what you look like as long as you can make yourself belive you feel good. if you tell yourself you are sexy and beautiful and attractive then you will radiate positivity and other people will start to believe it too. the key is to have faith in yourself. everyone has bits of themselves that they hate even the most amazinly gorgeous people and even those people can seem unattractive if they don't have confidence. if I were you have a real look at yourself and decide what you think are your best features and concentrate on those. losing weight is always difficult but actually most guys would agree that a girl who is curvy is far more attractive than a stickinsect. before you go out anywhere look in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful and try and belive it and soon others will too. I think its great that you had the courage and confidence to tell this guy you liked him, by telling him yourself you probably earned some of his respect too. if I were you i would ask him out,just to find out how he feels about you. but don't push it too quickly, talk to hima little more, encourage contact and if sucessful flirt a bit, let him get to know you so that when you do ask him he won't just be judging you on looks and if hes not interested then its his lookout and obviously a huge loss for him. so jst remember babe confidence is the key and keep smiling!!! hope it all works out for you in the end.
becca x x x
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