Advice please

I have been married not even 1 year yet and my husband says he always tired or its to late,he never comes on to me,i always have to ask but now its getting to the point where i am sick of asking him,i have started to feel un attractive and insecure,if seems like he just dont want sex with me,i have a high sex drive too.Im all confused at the moment,i also have just got a huge mortgage about two months ago! everything seems more inportant than his wife..but if i talk to him or mention anything he gets mad or says i dont want to talk??

Please give me some advise someone

Try to speak to him.

Be nice and kind at first but resolute. If he doesn't understand, carve out a space for yourself and look at his reactions...
Men like him are very difficult and don't want to talk because they are unsecure or they have something to hide , quite often...
Pay attention to him...

Your mortgage?

Aha, now why would you say the mortgage is yours not "ours".I think money is what is worying, money worries are one of the few things that can ruin a man's sex drive. Once I know the mortgage situation I might be able to advise you.
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Good option...

look for some one who has everything you want and go for it.have an affair without letting your husband know about it .that will definetly work ..if he doesnt realise what you want then why do you want to be honest cheating yourself .life is very precious dont waste it for anyone who never care you properly

Hmmm

tell him exactly how you feel. trust,all men(apart from me,lol) cant read women that well, so he wont know how your feeling.
p.s. fancy a one off thing,hehe

Well..

i have exactly the same issue, let me know what you do, haha!

I dont know

I dont know what to do,will I be happier without him ??whats your situation then>?