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I am 37. My Boyfriend likes playing suckling on my breast more than having sex. He is 35. He reasons that when he was 9, their neighbor would come over with her children and spend the night at their house. She would expose her large breasts on her bed and let her 3 year old play with her breasts and also let my boyfriend go over and play and also suckle at them. I don't know if that is considered sexual abuse by the neighbor. He wants to take every opportunity to get on my breasts even though I am not lactating. I get excited but after him being at it for 5 minutes, it becomes too much and I have to ask him to stop. He does so reluctantly. I want to satisfy him. What should I tell him? Is there anything we can do so he does less of this? Is what he doing normal for a man? I never had someone so transfixed with breasts?

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really concerning that she would let someone who is not her child suck her breast sounds like abuse to me. But anyhow if you don't like it after awhile tell him to stop. As it is getting to the point wheer it doesn't seem sexual for you at all.

"nipple sucking"

have you been able to speak with your OH about his nipple obsession if so how did it go, was it easy or did he take offenc to it.

your lover's intent suckling.

Mabe he is not genle or elaborate enough and does not know how to do it right. If its done properly and in the right mood, it can be pure extasy and you can orgasm as a result. Tell him to kiss you deeply on the lips, kiss & lick your neck and upper body-shoulders, neckline., strongly hold and stroke your back and buttocks, then proceed to your breasts. - not straight on the nipple, but kissing and licking and nipping the breast gently, then kissing and gently sucking the surface of the by then swollen nipple and finally enveloping the aureola with his lips (strong but not painful) latching-on and nursing on you. Believe me, you will not know what hit you!
Explain to him thar breast suckling is (an important) part of lovemaking - but should be performed perfectly. i'm married to a man who nurses on me every day, for the last 12 years (I'm 36) he is in love with my beasts and nipples and we spend hours in bed with him breastfeeding. He got hooked when I nursed our children and it never stopped since. i enjoy it to the point of orgasm every time. We ... of course, but he is on the breast for 30 minutes at least before he enters me and I would not have it any other way. The intimacy is amazing, he worships me and I never, ever deny him - he even nurses in the car, in the cinema and on the beach. i think you shouil not question your boyfriend's need but go along, while showing him how to do it right. By the way, all my relationship before I married were ANR. I cant even begin to explain how deeply men feel toward a woman who offers them her breast, unconditionally. i'm sure you have a nice pair if he is so in love with them. My breasts are my great asset - large but not enormous with very dark and wide aureola and prominent nipples. he says they drive him insane and he can't be without them, he loves sucking my milk. use your ... to your full advantage, everything else will follow. Good luck. i hope you did not give up on him by now.

I don't think he was abused

I don't know if there is a right or wrong to this - some women just feel natural about suckling kids, no matter how old. Breast feeding is satisfying, but it is not a sexual satisfaction, more a nurturing thing.
My boyfriend loves breasts, and many men find lactation sexy. There is a slight shift in context between women who lactate and breastfeed children through a primal need to nurture, and men and women who wish to indulge in Adult Nursing. There is a support group on yahoo.com called ANSL, which is a group for Adult Nursing couples, and people who are seeking Adult Nursing Relationships. Many women who do this are happy to nurse men and/ or women as a nurturing thing, some as a sexual thing. You have to make up your mind about how you want this relationship to go, sexually. If you feel it is crossing too many boundaries, you have the right to say 'no'. Exercise it.
If you want to continue, then relax. It is not a terrible thing to do - there are so many sexual practices that are dangerous, painful and humiliating. This is safe, as long as you don't have HIV - HIV can be passed on through breast milk.
Your boyfriend loves your breasts, and is excited by suckling them.Ask yourself if this is OK or not. It is YOUR decision, and if you say 'no,' he then has the choice whether to move on, or be content with what you are comfortable with. If you like him loving your breasts, then you should decide how long he should suckle. He may like this - you can tell him to stop, that he has 'had enough'. It can be a role play thing, where you decide the boundaries- this may arouse him and he should then give something back - God knows, you need something back - what floats your boat?what do YOU want him to do to turn you on? Ask him. It MUST be a two way streetRemember, it's not all about him....

Its alright

It might not have been right for that lady to have another boy suck her nipples, but I dont think that what he wants from you is wrong, you should be very excited that he wants something so wonderfull.

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