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Giving my girlfriend and orgasm

Well Ive been going out with my GF 7 months now I like to think were good together but theres on aspect that Im not pleased with I cant give my GF an orgasm none of her old BFs have been able to either (which is some comfort)

How ever I would love to change this we have spent literally hours trying I can now have an orgasm and carry on going (if I have a 15-30 second brake of fast thrusting) I was talking to my old GF about this and she said I gave her, her first multiple orgasm and the problem doesnt lie with me but I hate to think its some thing I cant fix (I know thats not the right word)

So if any one has any idea I would love to hear them

P.S my penis size is 7-8 inches depending am I to small for her ?

xxx

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Yes

You are very small

Oral?

I cant say ive come just by penetration with my boyfriend and he's the same size as u,(more or less) and the only way i can come is by playing with my self during sex or recieving oral(and that still takes time). Also get her to masterbate(if she doesnt already) as that helps the body to get used to orgasms.As long as your no smaller than 2-3inches whilst erect your penis size has nothing to do with it. She also needs to be highly turned on, sometimes it can take from 30 mins to an hour for girls to reach orgasm so when youve squirted your load try giving her more foreplay/oral-gives you time to recouperate. Just experiment. Even try anal-not every 1's cup of tea but yu have to make some sacrifices. Have fun xx

Giving

Firstly, you should have enough respect for your girlfriend not to speak about your sex (problems/) life in the first place. Especially to your ex!!! I'd go absolutely mad....

Once this is said most women cannot get orgasm only from intercourse. My current boyfriend is not good at giving me orgasm. He claims that his previous girlfriend would come so much that it ran out of her. We all get turned on by different things so you need to find out with your girlfriend what turns her on. I literally had to show him where my clitoris was...

I have no problem making myself come and neither have my previos boyfriends. I'd like my boyfriend and I to have more foreplay. It makes me enjoy the sex much more. Maybe you just need to ask her to explain what she likes to do. If she is too shy to tell you ask her to move your hand for myou when you have sex or be very aware of what she responds to, i.e. what she likes...

Can you multitask?

Hi, i have a little bit of advice for you :
you're probably not too small for her if your penis is 7-8 inches. i think that the problem doesnt lie with your performance.some women cant get off from just intercourse,they need clitoral or even anal stimulation aswell.try rubbing her clit as well as thrusting, along with using your mouth and hands beforeyou enter her.meybe even experiment with small sex toys at the same time as penetrating her, but meybe forget about teh quick thrusting.slow and steady(but not boring) wins the race.make sure you make her feel sexy and sensual and remember that you can multitask, try playing with her clit as well as entering her and talk to her about anal sex, most girls cringe at the thought but she might just get off on it.

Hmmm

wow lol i went out with this lad for 2 years and it does work if he can multitask, he'll b fine say 4 example if he was licking her out, then fingered her at the sme time, she'll hit orgasm no problem ooo slow down on the quick thrusting aswel, some ppl like it fast and slow so try the other 1, c what reaction u get

I think i know what is the prob

first of all there is no such thing as small or big, because a small p can give an orgasm ok, it depends what your woman wants. Maybe she wants you to do things that she does not admit. Ask her to tell you. I never admited to my boyfriend that I want oral sex and fingering. When it is time for me to come, I come on top, he does not mind. I think she wants another routine in sex, perhaps more talking and kissing, ASK HER!!!!

Try long foreplay followed by oral

Try this out..
First make her feel loved, shower her with kisses as if she is getting wet in rain. Play with her hair, carase her whole body this might help you to turn her on to gr8 extent. Then give her oral sex with special emphasis on the clitoris. Try out variety of pace and gestures in oral sex, watch her reactions. As soon as you find her loosing control in any one of your gesture repeate it over and over again. This might lead her to burst with in orgasm. Best of Luck..!



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