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Anal sex???

we tried doing anal sex, but his P wouildn't jst enter me..
can any1 give sum tips???

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Another tip lol

also lie on yor side wiv him behind u ,so its easier 2 get the rite postion more comfy n u can play wiv yor clit at the same time xxxx

anal ecstacy

first of all u must b completely relaxed if yor 2 tense it mite b a bit painful get yorself sum gud lube ,i like doin it wivout i like the friction ,but 4 yor 1st time id use lube,first of all let him tease yor ass 4 a bit wiv the tip of his ... then slowy just slide the tip in until u get used 2 it make sure u let him no how fast n how deep 2 go then it doesnt become uncomfortable,then slowly let him go deeper n faster ,also play wiv yor clit at the same time .ill guarantee after the first time u come from anal sex ull wanna do it all the time it ... great i love anal sex ,just make sure yor nice n clean down there n dont worry about it ,as long as yor in control n tell him wat pace u wanna go ull love it 2 xxx hope that helps

Try this

Anus doesn't produce any natural lubrication like vagina so you need lots of lubricant to apply . You should try out water based lubricants as they are non sticky and very slippery so the penetration would become more easy and painless. Moreover these are long lasting . But beware always use the lube from trustworthy shops like this one i can say from my personal experience : www.vivavibrators.co.uk . Also the enema thing is very essential to avoid any kind of embarassement. Moreover you should be totally relaxed when taking in his member . Firstly you should start with slow thrust and as you get more used to it , try going harder .

Hope this helps.
All the best.

This is what you need to do...

Use lots of lube, and not KY jelly or durexx rubbish, a proper silicone lubricant from a good sex shop or order some online, its more expensive but far superior for anal sex. it won't dry out as quickly and feels much more slippery to the touch - perfect for anal fun!

Plus, as he enters you you must relax completely, and as he enters you a little to begin with, he must pause for a few moments as you consciously relax your ass musles, he'll then find he can push a little further in, then once he pushes a little further ask him to pause again as you relax completely, repeat this process until he's all the way in and pretty soon you'll be begging him to do it harder! but take it slowly first... the best things come to those who wait! lol

The way i do it is I have an enema first, then have a quickie shower and then jump in the bath and then lube up a butt plug or small dildo, and then just spend a little while in the bath easing the toy in and out, in and out until it can pop right in easily, and then put on some heels, walk out into the lounge, (butt plug still inside! lol) and present myself to my lovely boyfriend. he goes crazy for this, plus he can enter me straight away because my ass is already widened by the toy.

Not true either that anal is mostly for the man's pleasure - i am able to multiple orgasm from anal, and my most memorable and strongest orgasms have been when i've been having anal sex, it's just an incredible feeling.

Go for it girl!!!

Hope this helps

xxx

Anal tips

before u are about to have anal intercourse just make sure u DO an enema...its like u flush out ur anus with water plenty of times until u feel its completely empty & clean inside...and then repeat it again 2-3 times....this will prevent for both u n ur man to run into something unpleasant..
alright so after this is taken care of...u can use some lubricant...(do not use vaseline or any other home oil) but u can get special lubes for anal sex from any pharmacy, try askin ur man buy one for u- this will save u the embarrassment for u & turn on ur guy...
once the lubes on his member & also massaged on the anal entry...things will go on their own....
by the way, anal sex is not as pleasurable for women..but anal stimulation for men can give them multiple orgasms....when the finger's inserted n used to stimulate the prostate gland
i guess its not way too much info for u..
cheers!

"anal sex???"

plenty of lub, and let your mind at ease.. if your worried you will just tighten up as he tries to push it in..

slow and steady wins the race!!

Starglide lube ideal for anal

After reading in my magazine an artical about parabens in lube, I have started to use a new natural lube called Starglide. I can't find it in the shops but have puchased it from their website http://www.starglide.co.uk/ . I bought a bottle of their Starglide Bio Sensitive and love the stuff!! You only need a small amount, it doesn't smell of anything, it doesn't dry up and doesn't make you sting because It's got aloe vera in it.



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