This is what you need to do...
Use lots of lube, and not KY jelly or durexx rubbish, a proper silicone lubricant from a good sex shop or order some online, its more expensive but far superior for anal sex. it won't dry out as quickly and feels much more slippery to the touch - perfect for anal fun!
Plus, as he enters you you must relax completely, and as he enters you a little to begin with, he must pause for a few moments as you consciously relax your ass musles, he'll then find he can push a little further in, then once he pushes a little further ask him to pause again as you relax completely, repeat this process until he's all the way in and pretty soon you'll be begging him to do it harder! but take it slowly first... the best things come to those who wait! lol
The way i do it is I have an enema first, then have a quickie shower and then jump in the bath and then lube up a butt plug or small dildo, and then just spend a little while in the bath easing the toy in and out, in and out until it can pop right in easily, and then put on some heels, walk out into the lounge, (butt plug still inside! lol) and present myself to my lovely boyfriend. he goes crazy for this, plus he can enter me straight away because my ass is already widened by the toy.
Not true either that anal is mostly for the man's pleasure - i am able to multiple orgasm from anal, and my most memorable and strongest orgasms have been when i've been having anal sex, it's just an incredible feeling.
Go for it girl!!!
Hope this helps
xxx
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