I am newbee (female) to dildos...any help appreciated

Hi....I have never used a dildo or for that matter any other thing except for my own fingers to pleasure myself...simply because I feared I will lose the natural tightness of my vagina...Is this really the case....?
But I would like to try one...cause being away from my man seems to have taken its toll on me..N I m finding it hard to masturbate....haven't had sex for 1yr and 4 months...and will not be able to do until December...I seriously considering using sextoys to take myself out of this situation of total frustration...I hope gals out thr can fathom my state....
PLs make suggestions..which ones are best out thr 4 beginners...and if some discrete options are available then kindly let me know about them as well...
this help wud b much appreciated!!!

Sex toys advice

If your newbie and have fear to lose vaginal tightness than you can start with something small like the mini rabbit - this is a small vibe and stimulates your clitoris in just the right form. Also as it is small, it will not penetrate much so you will not even lose your vaginal tightness. Or if you are ready to spend upto 50 pounds than lelo vibes can become a very good choice . These are very efficient and classy too. You can check some of these at VivaVibrators Shop

Hi

Personally I love my rampant rabbit (blue).
You can go to Ann Summers to buy one. It is easy. Or you can order it online...
Good luck.
Erika

Appreciated

thanks honey...I do have an Ann Summers store here..m in London...I will try n look for one...
Thanks again

Romping rabbit

Hey!

I bought my girlfreind a Romping Rabbit from this site mrPleasure.co.uk when she was first starting and she absolutley loved it. it drove her crazy!
The url for the Rabbit is http://www.mrpleasure.co.uk/Online_Catalogue_Romping_Rabbi t_1971.html
They're really reliable too, plus I got free delivery free lube AND free batteries with mine! Can't argue at that can you?

Good luck!