Hiya!

That's the first time i write it (i usually right in this forum but my country version).


I'm here cause i need u English guys!


My bf is english...

Well we are not going to get married...we are together since a bit but our relationship is pretty strong so at times we fancy on our future wedding IN A LOT OF YEARS!

Anyway we got to talk about stag nights and hun (i dunno the right spelling) nights.

Well he said "what if i sit on a chair and i have a stripper and u a stripper too?"

In my country there r ppl who go to see strippers and some ... who have sex too with them (nothing more disgusting in my opinion cause u r going to get married in 1 week)...anyway here there r "bad" ppl like "good" ones who go out with friends in bars and clubs, getting drunk BUT respecting their future wife-husband.

When i told him how i think (after being pissed off too), he said "no prob. no strippers for both of us".

I trust him so im sure (or hope) he really wont have a pussy in front of his face before getting married to me, like a i wont have a ... on my nose!

Anyway he told me he said ITS NORMAL IN ENGLAND FOR EVERYBODY TO HAVE AT LEAST A STRIPPER AND MANY DO OTHER THINGS TOO.


so.......... here my question: is it true that a normal stag night means strippers and touching and some ppl also some oral sex? i mean is it true is it NORMAL???

how is a normal stag night then? what happens?


THANKS A LOT! i know its pretty long this mess ...sorryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy


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no,it's not normal to go any futher than looking at a stripper,if your boyfriend wants sex with another woman before your marriage he is a cheet,and you should'nt marry him

hi, I don't think he is all that bothered it's probably just a satisfy my mates bloodlust type thing. If anything happens it will be just a routine strip with him thinking you sad ... but really wondering how you're doin.

If he has good sensible mates, they should look after him but just humiliate him (for geting all sensible and married) If his mates can't be trusted you have a problem. Stripers are risky as if his mates pay she will do pretty much anything. Lap dancers aren't allowed to touch, so you can let him have his last look at some tarts bits.
not easy to cope with but be realistic...it Will be his last chance .
If you allow a stripogram in a public place...then it gets raunchy , but she usually has a big burly minder with her to stop it going to extremes.
That lets him be a cool guy without it going too far.
You can't blame him for trying!He is a man.
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Hey,

Well although many guys have strippers in my experience it is more often just a huge pub crawl. Where I originally come from (North East Scotland) there's also a blackening so the guy can get tied to a lamppost and get stuff chucked on them (traditionally tar and hay). Every guy is different. For some a meal will be enough, some a ... up and so on. For the girls hen night again it can be as wild or simple as you like it. My friends are currently organising mine. It can beanything from a night in having cocktails and cookies to a pub crawl. Again everyone is different. In many cases the Brits go abraod for a hen/stag weekend say to Berlin or Prague where there is lots of cheap beer.

Hope this helps. I also don't want my fiance to be eyeing up other women before he marries me

English men are so empty brains!!! Find a nice meditaranean Man.

No they're not, just because you haven't found the right one doesn't give you the right to generalise!