What do i do

Hey (I dont know if this is the right one or not but ...)

Me and my boy friend have been gong strong for 7 months now and we go everywhere together, but the other night we were going to go to a party , but i was feeling ill. so he went without me. he was drinking at the party and then in the host's bedroom had Oral Sex with my best friend. I'm 14 and he is 15. I never had sex with him because i wasn't ready. He said he understood and left it at that, I haven't forgivrn him and he won't talk to me because i haven't. Have I done the right thing and should I leave him because of this x

If he

dont talk about it, forget him! On the next corner you will find a better one.

He cant say he understood you, respect you and then.... cheat you.

Sorry to sound harsh but...

Your best friend doesn't really sound like a friend, nor does this boyfriend of yours sound like anyone worth hanging on to. Yes, they might have been drunk, but in my own experiences I haven't cheated on a partner even when I was that off my face, especially not with their BEST FRIEND. Also your mate really doesn't seem to deserve your friendship if she's planning to KEEP the child they conceived through that night, it's basically like she's broadcasting that she slept with your boyfriend. If I were you I'd ditch them both because they really aren't worthy of your time if they're going to behave so inconsiderately.

I'm sorry to be so mean seeing as you're close to these people, but if they really valued their ties to you they wouldn't treat you this way. You deserve A LOT better, believe me.

Ly x

Oh god!!!

It turns out that my best friend is now pregnant!!!!!!! and she is keeping it!!! now what do i do???

Forget him!!!

Forget about him...he's not worth your effort!!!

As for your best friend...well...what kind of friend is she? If you think this is a one off and she will never do this again then help her through this, cos i'm guessing that right now she'll be cacking her pants!!!

Boyfriends come and go but always make sure you keep your friends close!!!

Hope this helps! x

That's right

"Boyfriends come and go but always make sure you keep your friends close!!!"

Re : "what do i do"

Hey,

I think you took a little hasty decision. I can understand you were angry because he had sex with your best friend. But you should also understand that he was drunk so there is a possibility that he got carried away. and as you said you both never had sex , so over-drinking must also have brought his desires out, just that the person with whom he did was wrong. You should talk to him and also hear his side. After thinking from both sides get on a decision. If you really like this guy than its worth this much pain. May be he is feeling sorry for what he did. Just one thing i want to ask you here , how did you know he had sex with your friend? If your bf told you than you should be happy that atleast he told you what he did when he was drunk , many people dont even speak up.

I hope this helps.
All the best