Face-slap from my mother

I can't understand world anymore. I'm 16 years old, and my relation to my mother is not really the best. But until yesterday, it workes anyhow. But yesterday evenig, i came home not at 10 o'clock p.m., foremost shy of midnight. Well, a dispute broke out; in the couse i called her a ... Whereupon she slapes my face

Now, she's confident, that she's in the right
She doesn't recognize that she must apologize

What do you think? Should I do the first move, although I#m in the right?

Ranja

Ring your mum next time!

If you had a certain time that you was supposed to come in at, then I'm not surprised your mum was cross with you. I'd be worried sick, her worrying led to anger against you, which resulted in her slapping you, which of course is very wrong. She does owe you an apology, but you owe her one also for being late! How can she trust you, if you dont stick to the rules? If you always come in when your supposed to on a regular basis, then on the odd occasion you could ring her and ask for longer, which she might agree to if youv'e never let her down in the past.

What do you

called her? Whatever it was, the slap was not OK, but you can`t call her anything

Both sides makes a failure. It is her right to be angry because you was not at home, at the right time. You made the first mistake to call her something and I think you should take the first step and I think, she will apologize too.

Greetings
Mike

PS: sorry for my waste english Im a guest from the german forum of sofeminine

Oh sorry,

i called her a b*tch

Don't worry

this is a regular practice. i too faced it manier times.