Question: trying to conceive

Hi Ladies!

My husband and I have been married for 7 months, and we have decided to have a baby. We were together for many years before marriage, but we waited to have intercourse until after marriage. However, it hasn't been as easy as we'd hoped. You see, I hate to be frank and vulgar, but my husband had a very large penis, and although I love how large it is, it makes intercourse challenging and painful. I've tried to use lots of lubricant to make it easier, and we have tried just letting him fill me and hopefully stretch me to fit, but it isn't working. The only method that comes close to working is him inching in (which takes awhile since he is a full 9 inches erect and nearly 3 inches around - huge, right?!?) which really gets me aroused! I love my husband and his gorgeous phallus, but it's almost like I'm scared to be intimate with him because I know it will hurt me! My husband is getting really frustrated.

So, we want a baby soon, but I feel like we won't be able to conceive because I can't take him all the way in me. Will he be able to get me pregnant? Do you know of anything that can help me and Todd, because I want to satisfy him and I want to be able to take him all the way. Any of you ladies who also have a husband with a large girth know how incredible it feels to be stretched and opened like that, but his massive length combined with the thickness is too much for me.

Thanks for helping.

Libby and Todd Holden

Had some trouble, too.

Hi, Libby. When my husband and I first got married and started having intercourse, we had a similar problem because he is long and thick. Your husband sounds a bit longer than mine, though. The first time I saw my husband's penis in bed, I cried out, "Babe, how big are you?" only to see that as we got more hot and heavy, his penis magically grew even larger. Let's just say I was inexperienced when we began. Fully erect, my husband is just over 8 inches long but the width is about 3.5 in diameter, which is just slightly bigger than your husband. I don't know what his girth is, but it is probably about 7 or 8. Needless to say, when we measured, I was shocked and a bit scared, but I was so excited to feel him inside me that it didn't matter. I encouraged him with my excitement and we used a great deal of foreplay and lubricant. What we did was have me stroke his erect shaft with lubricant and pump it with my fingers. Now, don't be scared if this causes him to become a little more erect and get a bit bigger, because if we did this, sometimes my husband would get to about 9. He stimulated me with his fingers at the same time, and he was very erect and I was quite dripping wet, so we decided to try vaginal intercourse. We love to have him inch in slowly - yes, it takes a while, but it is so satisfying and erotic to ask him, "Babe, are you in?" and have him say, "No, only half-way"! When you know you are going to be stretched way more, it can be scary, but for me it is now so sexy and invigorating. Have him pump you and thrust deeper and deeper by swinging your legs around his rear. Trust me, you can conceive, Hubby and I have three girls, and we are trying for a new baby! Embrace his large size and enormous girth and you will be excited enough to be able to experience full entry. The first time we did it (when I asked him if he was all the way in and he said only half way) I experienced such pleasure and turn on simply from him having so much more to give me. Work your way up, but it can happen and trust me, it is the most intensely pleasurable love-making we have ever had! Good luck!