Coping with a man with a large penis

How can we make sex fun and comfortable, and get me pregnant, when my husband has a very large shaft? It's 8 inches and 6 inches around, which equals to about 9.5 inches erect in length and a width of nearly 3 inches. How do I get that thing comfortable in me?

Using my sister's account, my name is Liza.

Il existe

des anneaux prévus spécialement pour ce problème. des chocs trops durs et répétés sur le col de l'utérus peuvent lui nuire.
grace à ce type d'anneau, qui raccourcit au niveau mécanique un pènis trop long pour la partenaire, tu pourras à nouveau te "laisser aller" et vous aurez du plaisir tous les deux, même dans les positions profondes comme doggystyle ou legs on the shoulders.
j'ai trouvé cette information dans un livre et ne sais pas exactement où acheter cet anneau. probablement dans un sex-shop, meme un cockring qui n'est pas prévu pour cela peut tout de même être utilisé à cet effet.
A ta place j'essaierais cela, j'espère que j'ai pu t'aider...

good luck!

dori

could somebody please translate it in english?

This should be helpful

Hi! Heidimom:

First off I would like to say that a woman's vagina is much like a car and they both need to be warmed up before having sex or you drive off.. You may be having what's called dry sex,where your normal vaginal fluids have not yet begin to flow due to insufficient sexual arousal, Foreplay. on the part of your husband. Then as is the case with many women there may be insufficient vaginal fluid, and you'll need to use a good,"not water based", lubricant during your intercourse. Here are two Web sites that may be helpful.< Facts about penis size-Mozilla Firefox > also this Web site.<.MSP Sex Q&A: Why does sex hurt my girlfriend? Does sex hurt the first time? /My Sex Professor: Sexuality Education- Mozilla Firefox >

Best to you both.

Toldman .

Ouch

Lol, I too feel your pain as I am in the same situation... minus the getting pregnant part - I find a good position to use is one were your legs are over his shoulders - this increases the size of your bits and is more accomodating for his size ...
also in this position - If you are trying to get pregnant gravity is on your side
good luck x x

Same problem here......

I've been with my fiance for 6 years now. In the beginning she was all about it. Now she almost seems disgusted if I bring sex up. I always thought she would get used to it, but I think she is tired of the pain and I don't know what to do.

The last time we had sex she was bleeding after and it has been a "sore" subject ever since. I love her very much and never imagined this to be the cause for our potential break up.

There's no such thing as a penis reduction is there?

Please read my answer

in the top of this thread... in fact, it was an answer to you. i just wrote it at the wrong place.
hope it will help you.

dori

I do believe there is a form of penis reduction surgery available ....

How big are we talking about?

As was said in a previous post- Its all about "warming up" before hand, plenty of lube ...and for heavens sake dont THRUST in it with all your might ...lol
We'll end up with internal problems

Take it easy - and slowly ...lots of stimulation before it goes in - also as I said before - legs over the shoulders is a good one

Good luck

We tried that....

I always try and put her legs on my shoulders and she says it hurts more because of how deep it goes.

My previous GF loved it, but I think she was a bit freaky and not take home to Mom material...lol.
My "fella" is around 10-11 inches and fairly think depending on the mood. In high school it was legend and boosted my ego, now I want to bobbit it sometimes. Surprisingly we haven't used lube, she is always very wet soI guess it never crossed my mind, I'll get some KY and vodka tonight.

I definitely do not want to hurt her or cause pain, the sex is just horrible with her saying ouch every two seconds. I'm very thankful I found this forum, I'm going to tell her about it and maybe she can get some girl talk.

TY

K- Y ........AND vodka lol..love it

I know what you mean - when your younger its something to boast about, but clearly causing a problem for you and your other half, she should feel lucky she has someone who is so concerned for her

I know its hard (pardon the pun) but, you'll just have to keep trying different things - such as lube and try researching positions that it doesnt go so deep... maybe her on top- then she doesnt have to lower herself completely, so as not to take the full length?
Yes she may find this site helpful - i know I have

No good

Outlook not so good......................