Want to keep my marriage alive!

Hi. My husband and I have two children, ages 6 and 9, and I'd like to bring that spark back into our relationship, and maybe even conceive again! What should I do?

Elli

Try this

If you want to bring some spark in your routine life just try something saucy like adult toys. Here is a nice article i found : http://www.buzzle.com/articles/variety-is-spice-of-life-and-s ex-toys-are-the-spice-of-sex.h tml . Hope this brings the spark in your love life. All the best.

Hope this helps

im in a relationship im 26 gf is 22 we have a 10month baby,,, try sending him a saucy text or sending him a sexy pic ...it works for me , try lots of foreplay i mean lots lol touching caressing mayb masturbating infront of your husband ..... now as a guy thats the most erotic sexiest act a girl can do ..try talking about fantasys
if u r worried about noise ...iv been there when we were sharing a flat we started using the floor as its harder less noise than a bed feels wild and much better penetration ... just a couple of things from a guys prospective
all the way from scotland x if u wanna talk
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Hello!

Hi, Elli!

As the mom of soon-to-be seven children, I've had to learn to make time for my husband alone, and definitely to make time for sex and intimacy with him. Occasionally, we'll send the kids to friends' homes or to my mom's while we have a weekend away or just spend the night in. This is an ideal time to relax and just enjoy eachother's company, and if it leads to sex, then that is great! I don't know how you feel about making love with your husband when your children are home, but Will and I don't mind. When you have six children (almost seven in a few days), it's too costly and cumbersome to move the kids around just so he and I can be intimate. We frequently make love after we put the kids down, but remember to lock the doors! You just have to relax and enjoy time with your husband, which can be difficult with kids around. You need to be comfortable with your sexuality, too. For instance, I can be very loud in bed (sorry if TMI), but this is what brings Will and I the greatest pleasure. Thus, I can't be afraid to scream out in ecstasy just because the kids are home...you can't hold back from your relationship just because of the children. As for conceiving, practice makes perfect, right? Just get in there and do the deed as often as possible, and I'm sure you'll fall pregnant again soon.

Good luck, Elli!

Love,

Jen + 38 wk Lucy bump

The Parker Family
Jen, Will, Ryan (9), Hannah (7), Rachel (5), Sophia (5), Jacob (3), Benny (1.5), and 38 wk Lucy bump

Igniting the spark

You both need to try and spend time on each other, no doubt the children have been the focus of your attentions. It's all about find some "Me Time" where you can both remember you aren't just mum and dad.

Find someone to look after the children for the evening and prepare for a night of sensuality. You could but some massage oils and candles to set the scene. Warm the oils and spend time finding the places you both like to me touched and caressed.

Before you know it you will both be in the mood and the rest needs no explaining.