Anal sex questions

My boyfriend of 3 years said he really thinks we are ready for anal sex. Only problem is he said if we are are going to do it we have to do it properly i.e. he'll stick it in and out of my anus however many times and just when he feels he is ready to cum he will stick it in my mouth. He told me that thought alone would give him unbelievable pleasure and satisfaction and enhance his feeling of tenderness towards me. This scenario has raised a few questions which I'm hoping someone on this discussion board can answer for me:

[1] I have never had anal sex before, so even if we use lubricant, am I going to have to wear butt plugs for the rest of my life because the thrusting has ripped the sensitive muscles in my anus?

[2] What are "anal beads" and what role do they have in anal pleasure?

[3] What is "rimming"?

[4] My partner really would like me to give him more deep oral sex, yet when I got all excited and said each time I have a shower I wash around my anus, he angrily said "Yuck, I am not licking around your anus" which actually kinda upset me for a short while. What is so discusting about licking around the anus of someone who always keeps it clean when you expect so much from them?

Get rid of him

No REAL man would expect you to take his ... in your mouth immediately after removing it from your anus. The fact that you are willing to try anal sex should be enough. I wish you were here.

Hear me out

Your boyfriend is certainly not being fair in the whole situation....you should not let him put his penis into your mouth after going anal...this is the easiest way to get microorganisms into your body...it is so unhealthy and unhygienic!

He could cum perfectly while inside your anus/rectum.

If you haven't had anal before, penis should be introduced easily with a lot of anal foreplay like massaging with lube and fingering and then slowly bit by bit introducing the penis.

Good luck and don't let your boyfriend get away with his stupid and selfish wishes!!!!

Anal sex

sweetie,if you and he agree you want to try anal sex,you need to know that you need to be VERY relaxed,try him getting you very turned on b4,plus you need to use anal ease or ky jelly.....it works as desensitizer,but he still needs to be gentle seeing how you have never had anal sex b4...as for the question about anal beads,they can put you in a very turned on mood if used correctly.if you use them,start with 1 or 2 beads,then each time,use 1 more till you are comfortable with however many you want to have in you,if you decide to try it.......

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don't do it and leave him!
sorry, but that's my opinion

Your boyfriend is a jerk and you need to dump him yesterday

Hey, I'm very sorry to hear your boyfriend is such a jerk, and that you may have low self-esteem. I don't mean that disrespectfully.
Consider: he expects you to take his penis deep up your anus, then pull out just before orgasm and cum in your mouth. (with whatever is on his penis from your rectum). Even if it is invisible, there will still be bacteria from your rectum on his penis. Yet he thinks it is disgusting to lick your clean anus. Dump this jerk. He is insensitive and selfish, and doesn't realize what a prize he has in you. I love to lick a around and across a girl's anus (rimming). It feels great to both of us, is very personal and intimate, and drives the girl nuts. Most girls are too inhibited to even try that, and deny themselves and their partner this intimacy. Your boyfriend won't do that for you, yet expects you to put his penis that was just up your rectum into your mouth, without even making sure there is no feces on it. That is abuse, not sex. It's extreme insensitivy, and selfishness on his part. If he can't appreciate what a prize you are, and satisfy you the way you want, you need to dump him Now and find a decent guy that would feel lucky to be with you.
If you don't see that, respectfully, you need to speak to a girl counselor now to improve your self-esteem. I mean that sincerely and with respect. You deserve better than this insensitive jerk. And I'm a guy saying that.

For ... sake ...

... how dare someone ask you to suck his penis after having anal sex and refuse to lick around a clean anus? c'mon now it depends on what you expect from this relationship if u like the guy you'd better dump him cause he doesn't like u girl

Wased

dont fall for that girl he just is horney and want some one to suck his ...

Anal sex positions

Most of those who have never tried anal sex, erroneously think that there are a few positions to enjoy anal pleasure in. If fact anal sex as well as vaginal one requires a great deal of inventiveness. Otherwise, if not varied it turns into routine. You should try a few different positions at least to find out what your favorite one is, which one gives you maximum pleasure.

Here we are not going to mention all possible positions. You can make love in sitting position, in standing position or even being hung in the air. The most important thing is to find out which positions you like most and which ones give your partner maximum pleasure. Actually anal sex positions do not differ much from ones vaginal sex involves. As an example, let us see 5 classical anal sex positions.

1. A passive partner is lying on his belly whereas the active partner is lying on him (her). Some people think that this position is not too comfortable and note that the penis does not penetrate deeply. However, it helps avoid injuries and painful sensations if the active partner's penis it very long and thick.

2. Both partners are lying sidelong (so called "spoons). This position is quite good, as it does not restrict the active partner's and allows him to caress the passive with hands and lips.

3. Doggy-style position. This one again does not restrict the active partner, but the most exciting thing is that he can see his penis moving!

4. The active partner is lying on his back with the passive partner sitting on him (usually face to face). In this case the penetrated partner is no longer "passive", he (or she) has to work hard in order to take pleasure and to give enjoyment to the partner...
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Sick sick sick!!!!!

You are sick!!!! The other word i would descibe you as is a PAEDOPHILE. I'm going to report your story! You SICK PERVERT!

Ass

god, he sounds like a right ... !!!!!!!!

anyway, I personally wouldnt suck his ... after it had been up my ass..yuck!! anal beads are like a necklace that he inserts in your ass, then pulls it out as your about to cum...you can buy them online. Yes, use loads of lube, make sure he is playing with your clit as he slides it in, that will distract you, go really slow. If he isnt keen on rimming, suggest using a anal douche b4 hand. I like receiving it but wouldnt give it..bad i know! good luck!

Anal sex

jus don du it cs u r gonna regret it after. he is only usin u 4 sex lol cs he z gona dump u after u have had sex. tel him no n if he dumps u, u mst kno he was only goin out wi u 4 sex lol. it cn b hard. hw old r u anyway. u cn give me a call on 07927514384 so tht i cn tel u de hole story lol o email me on magochajoyce@yahoo.co.uk

Some answers

Hello,
Due to my terrible speaking english, i did not understand some of your terms. But i'll try to answer things i understood.

[1] : If your boyfriend does it slowly at beginning and uses lubricant (you must use much), it won't hurt you at all. Most women enjoy it, particularly when it is done tenderly.

[2] : i dunno, i hope someone explains that for me too.

[3] : i think that rimming is licking one's anus.

[4] : to my mind, there's nothing disguting as far as it is really clean. Talking calmly about that with him would surely make things improve, although you might have difficulty in establishing that sort of talking.