I need some help.

Hi, my name is Jay, and I'm 17. I live in the States.

I've came here because something is bothering me. I only recently lost my virginity and I've foudn out something about myself. While I have found I have a talent with my toung and hands, I have also found that I climax quickly, too quickly for my taste really. It hasn't bothered me as much as I can keep going after I climax from some reason, and 'finish the job' if you will, but I am bothered that I cum quickly. I want it to last longer for both of us.

I'm between 6.5 and 7 inches long which I know is at least about average, but I still feel bad about the possibility of not pleaseing my partner. I am even a little shy about even recieveing oral sex because I climax in under 3 minuets.

My questions are, is there anything I can really do to last longer, and even if I cannot last longer, does this matter a lot with women?

Aww!

Because your just starting out, you get too excited, it should wear off in time, as long as you have satisfied your girlfriend before hand she wont mind...my boyfriend can keep going after he's came too..just as well as he cums too quick and he's 30!! sometimes we wait for half an hour and do it again..usually lasts longer. some men can go for hours but its ... sex and some men last 10 minutes but its wonderful. as long as you want to please your partner you'll be fine. She's lucky!!

Your just to excited

ok, i think a lot of guys have a similar problem to this when they first start having sex, i know i did a couple of times. the way i see it is your getting to excited about it before it actualy happens, so your virtualy at climax before you actualy do anything and then it doesnt take you long to finish. with time and experiance you should find this fade. in the meantime however you can always just try and make yourself less excited or more relaxed. i dont know how youd do that but experiment and when you find something that works just do that.

now as for being able to continue on after cumming, this is an impressive feet to be able to do naturaly, ive just about mannaged that myself but it took me several years of practice to be able to do it. anyway on that front i will say most girls probably wont even notice that youve finished if you can keep going afterwards. one thing i will say is that if your using condoms then its best if you dont do this, after your cum in one the chances of them spliting increases greatly, and trust me this is not something you want.