How come i cant cum?

When my girlfriend tossies me off or give me head, i never cum or get any feeling realy. Shes getting realy pissed of as well and realy wants me to cum, and i want too aswell. We havent had proper sex yet and im embaresed that i might not cum when we have sex. Its stupid coz when shes tossing me off and i finger her or rub her clit for her at the same time, she orgasms before i cum and i neva cum. I can cum when i watch porn but for some reason not when i with her.

Can some one plzzzzzzzzzz help?

I realy want to.

Thanx

You need to relax and give it time!

Hey!

Here's a few points that will help.

1. The two of you need to stop focussing on an end goal (to cum). Enjoy the process instead.

2. Reassure your gf that you love her etc., but tell her that it doesn't help you if she get's mad.

3. Stop watching porn (at least for a while) and stop masturbating. You have a girlfriend, so let her satisfy you and you satisfy her. If you watch too much porn and masturbate too frequently, your gf may not excite you enough and you may not have anything left in you to produce

4. Most of all, relax and it will happen. Just take it slowly.

Do you take anti-depressants or blood preasure medicine

The two I took made it real hard to get hard and to cum. This was okay with me because I just loved doing her orally and g-spotting her to wonderful shaking orgasms. But it made my new wife feel bad. I talked to the doctor and I was on the worst thing for getting orgasms (paxel and metoprolol) My wife was then in for a wonderful delight, and me too because she felt so much better when I was inside her.