Feel it
Hi tinks I had this issue arise when I first started dating someone who had come out of a 20 year marriage (she left him). he came very quickly. I resolved this issue this way: If he is on his back and you are in control i.e. squatting over the top of his ... just as he is about to cum you should be able to feel a tingling feeling (if you are sensitive enough to one another), just as it reaches the point of his cuming, get off, quickly, this will stop him and you can start again. I tried front squat, back squat, you name it.......and of course played with it a lot with my mouth and tongue. Its 10 months on and on Friday night his comment was "that must be a record for me not coming so soon" - we had been making love for an hour and he still hadnt cum but we resolved this in the shower. I am NOT saying it took 10 months to stop him doing it, what I am saying is if you are in control and can feel that feeling, you can stop him at a moments notice. Its worked for us and I cant see why it cant work for you. Some times there are reasons behind the coming too quickly, try to resolve what those are if you can get him to talk. Good luck! You sound like you already have an interesting sex life, so you are 3/4 of the way there! Love Mary x
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