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Fiancee cant make me cum

Hey!
Ive been with my partner for over 5years and he has never made me cum during sex or foreplay! He always cums and very quickly, when he has cumed i feel disappointed that its all over. I'm the randy one in our relationship and i want sex all the time, but he doesn't. How can i get him to make me cum?
Please help! x x x

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Your cunning problem

i found it hard to make my girlfriend cum during sex and oral and i thought it was a problem until we started using toy's lube and ya know sexual aids, have you tried watching porn before hand or even durin, perhaps you could try making love out doors to make it more stimulating. if this doesnt help im sorry but keep trying im sure you'll find a way to get your man to get you to cum xx

You'll keep cumming.

He only thinks of himself. I would slowly turn tou into a female volcano ready to erupt again and again by just giving you all the pleasure YOU crave!!
You'd love my big hard ... you'll keep cumming back for more!

I think its a very common problem

ive had a problem similiar to yours. for the past year ive been dating someone and he is someone who is finaaly good at what they do(sex) but i still cannot get off during sex. i have absolutely no problem with getting my self off or even him getting me off but only by my clit. i find that odd and i want to know if anyone knows what i should do ive searched the whole web and the only thing i can find is that im supose to put my fingers in 2 inchs deep and rub the top of the in side of my pussy but that doesnt do anything for me except feel weird. i dont kow what to do!!!!help me please!!!!

May be the problem in you

I'm sorry but may be you have some problem with achieving orgasms? Have you reached it? Try Sentia or other supplements if not. This way is very popular and effective.
And have you ever talked about it with your partner?

Fiancee cant make me cum

I have been with my partner 2 years and im suffering from the same problem my partner cums so quickly then when he has im very disappointed i havn't told him about this but the doctor i went to see said for me and my partner to experiment and just relax and for me to see what i like best and to tell him i dont know if this helps but im glad im not the only woman out there experiencing this problem xxxxx

Boyfreind is not able

increase the length of foreplay touch the testes of your Boy freind before the Act / and massage the Penis and if Possible Suck it for longer Erction / you Guys will be fine and will have enjoyable Sex !!

Hope this works

Hi two words c**k ring restricts blood flow so makes them cum slower and if u get a vibrating one or with additionally parts will help you along too. Also try getting a bunny as it seems to make it into a competion and even if hes not in the mood he soon will be when u are helping yourself

Feel it

Hi tinks
I had this issue arise when I first started dating someone who had come out of a 20 year marriage (she left him). he came very quickly. I resolved this issue this way:
If he is on his back and you are in control i.e. squatting over the top of his ... just as he is about to cum you should be able to feel a tingling feeling (if you are sensitive enough to one another), just as it reaches the point of his cuming, get off, quickly, this will stop him and you can start again. I tried front squat, back squat, you name it.......and of course played with it a lot with my mouth and tongue. Its 10 months on and on Friday night his comment was "that must be a record for me not coming so soon" - we had been making love for an hour and he still hadnt cum but we resolved this in the shower. I am NOT saying it took 10 months to stop him doing it, what I am saying is if you are in control and can feel that feeling, you can stop him at a moments notice. Its worked for us and I cant see why it cant work for you. Some times there are reasons behind the coming too quickly, try to resolve what those are if you can get him to talk. Good luck! You sound like you already have an interesting sex life, so you are 3/4 of the way there!
Love Mary x

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Maybe you both need to communiate more with sex, tell him the spots that you like to be touched, teased etc. tell him wot turns you on the most. tell him your biggest fantasies. trust me itll work. even if your in the middle of something i.e sex, dont be ashamed to say, ok i like it better when u do this etc....



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