Try this
wait until a day you feel really horny. make sure you're alone, have plenty of time and won't be disturbed. once you're feeling really turned on, start to play with your breasts, first through your clothes then beneath your top then beneath your bra as you feel more aroused. when you're desparate to move between your legs, slip a finger down there, and very gently and slowly caress your clit and other bits, finding the most pleasurable areas. feel when you are wet and use this on your fingers - it will heighten the sensations. if you feel the need, get firmer and faster with the motion, but if it gets less pleasurable at any point go back to slow, gentle pleasure caresses. some of my best times have been slow and gentle all the way, though sometimes I like to give myself a good seeing to! during all this, experiment with different positions (stretching out with your back arched and legs up is good), strip naked etc. and let yourself go.emphasis on REALLY ENJOYING YOURSELF, not on coming. you can even try telling yourself you're not allowed to come; that sometimes works. when you know what you like, you can work on it with your boyfriend (though lots of women don't come with just penetrative sex, he might need to do other things too). don't know if this is different to what you were doing before, but if it is give it a try. I hope you enjoy!
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