Should i swing

My husband and I have been married for five years, he had an affair 2 years ago after the birth of our second child, we split for a time but got back together and things are better than ever, he has recently told me that thinking about me being with another man really turns him on but it really scares me. After his affair I am very uneasy about him being with someone else and he says he is happy not to do that if I don't want him to but I have to say I am considering him watching while I sleeep with someone but it concerns me as to why he may want to do this, is he trying to even off the stakes after he has been with someone else is this a real fantasy, can anyone help ?

G

Hi g

This is ironic. I just posted a similar queery in the relationships forum. As a married man, I'll give you my personal perspective. I am around alot of attractive women for which I'd like to sleep with. I don't dare as my wife would be devestated. However, I have thoughts of seeing my wife experiencing joy and elation with a young handsome stud. I don't love her less, infact I hope swinging would satisfy her...albeit My wife and I have yet to swing. But I personally think you should attend a swing party and keep an open mind. If you see an attractive man - ask your husband what he thinks about it...if he is detests the ideal of sharing you... then you know he is selfish and is only interested in other women but not really into swinging.