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Orgasm
Hi my name is Laura and I have the same problem.
I have never had an orgasm, and I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years. He does everything perfectly, but I just never had one. I would love to have one. I don't know how to have one and how to find area's that would maybe start one off.
I have no idea where my g-spot is. My partner is the only guy that I have had sex with properly that is. I had a one nighter when I was 16, but I didn't know much then!
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Orgsem
Hi Laura
My name is Willow.
I am responding to your letter concerning Orgasm. Honey there's nothing wrong with you. Most females go through not being able to Orgasem. May I suggest something for you, and perhaps it might help. I am almost 49 years old, and I had to learn just what to say and do. When you are with your sexual partner, Don't hold back your thoughts or words. Show and tell your partner what you want and how you want it. In other words, Sometimes us nice little girls have to take on the roll of a naughty little girl. What some might call being nasty. It's not nasty at all, You show and tell your partner just what you want. And just relax, And let it happen. Trust me, I was just like you, But I learn it's my body and I know what I want. Now go after that Orgasem Laura. Tell Him what you want. Don'y hold back.
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I had the similar problem
Try natural supplements for increasing women sex drive. I had the similar problem: I felt only clitoral orgasm. Supplements are helpful (choose any, I have used Sentia, it affects rather fast).
And I had a secret from my bf: I began to act as if I had an orgasm it helped ME to feel it.
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Try this
Hi.. I have a sort of same problem like urs.. In my case, i do get orgasm but only in a particular position (me over my Bf).. try moving back and forth in that position ..
All the best !
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Opposite problem
I am a guy and I can't get orgasm.
I asked my gf for oral sex and she agreed. When my penis was in her mouth it felt good but still nothing. When my gf noticed that I am not very excited, she sucked my penis more and more and also rubbed my testes. Finally the semen came out but....
I am or her doing some thing out of place.
Any other ideas.
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I cant orgasm through sex
Sweetie it is ok if you cant have it through sex he is no t the right guy besides it means the guy is doing something wrong or his ding a ling is just too small
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Thats not all true
i have never had an orgasm but my byfriends ... is not to small its 8in.  i love it and our sex is absolutly amazing and oral sex and his fingers wow but i have still never had one what do you think would be my problem
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Me 2
yeh i have i can from a vibrator but my boyfriend cant make me it wud take hours if he did,i think u shud practice on urself get urself 2 then show him how u did it
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Using a vibrator
Sweetie if the vibrator is doing and you like the feeling keep doing it and sometime so it feels real make sounds like oooooo ahhhhhh that feels goo sometimes even scream but there are new men dolls where the whole body is rubber and there is a penis on it you have sex with the doll like its a real person and you get fucked in the ass and in the pussy just the way you like it
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More normal than u know...
Hi! I have actually felt the same before, i mean the feeling of frustration. I havent experienced an orgasm by penetration, so far. But now im over it. Dont worry my friend, im sure you will have an orgasm soon, try not to focus only on getting it! Have u already tried to get one by yourself? Or is it only when you have sex with your bfriend? I suggest not to push so hard, i mean, if the only thought you have when having sex is getting an orgasm, you will never get it. I ve read that it is difficult to women to get an orgasm, most of the girls wont feel it at all! So we are not the only ones! So, dont worry anymore! I think there are more experiences you should try with your partner and get a lot of pleasure. Of course this doesnt mean to give up, but to look for other ways to feel good when having sex... ok?
Take care...
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Be patient
How long have u been trying for? Because sometimes it takes a while for ur bodies to get to know each other, im sure eventually he'll find the right place that will make you get what you've been waiting for. Try new positions and stuff but most of all dont worry about it because it comes naturally n ye deffineatly make sure ur partner understands it's not his fault
xxx
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Orgasem
You should get him to sart with hi fingers then when your half way there he should finish you off with his ...
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Not working
look...dont worry about it...its just a phase u are going through...just give it a couple of months and if nothing changes then go and see a docter....talk to your partner and convince that he is not to blame...and that everything will be ok...
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Try new things
hienglishgirl is probably right, you're prob just going through a phase. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, relax and enjoy it and you'll have a much better experience.
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Thats bollox
Pleasuregurl, you don't know what your chatting about...
quote "Sweetie it is ok if you cant have it through sex he is no t the right guy besides it means the guy is doing something wrong or his ding a ling is just too small"quote
It is a known fact that 60%-70% women cant have an orgasm through intercourse, also size does not matter, how do l know? through experience SWEETIE 
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