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This iz stupid but please help

Bit of an embarresing question, but, when I'm with my girlfriend, and even if we just kiss, I get an erection :$ I dunno what I can do really, itz embarresing when we are out in town and stuff. I havnt been going out with her long, and I aint had many girlfriendz, so iz it something that might go away over time? Or haz anyone ever had the same problem?Thankz
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Nah nothing stupid

Your really are very sensitive . Anywayz there is nothing to be embarassed of. But as you said you didnt had much gf's so that must be why you must be getting so aroused. This is sure to go away with time. Once you get used to this stuff , these things will go away. So dont worry and all the best

Don't worry!!

I'm a girl but I can help. Explain to her what happens and how you feel about it, when me and my boyfriend kiss he goes hard an he has a large penis so it was hard for him to cover up. Once he had explained and said how he felt I helped him and now we are great. I makes me feel so good that I can turn him on so easily and it makes it easier when we go to bed.

Try not to be too embarresed x

That didn't answer your question....

The person who said your gf might be cheating on you.... wth?
1. that doesn't answer you question and
2. what a horrid thing to say.

If I were her it would sugest that your completely madly in love with her. If it's embaressing, adjust yourself (so to speak so it looks less inconspicuous :P)
Try not to worry about it too much... it's just being a bloke tbh

Well, is that not natural?!

Kissing a girl should lead to that - if not then either you are gay or low on libido. A better idea would be to unzip and show your boner to your girl; she would feel happy and proud. Let her handle it thereafter.

Answering

i think it might be cos you need to masturbate or make love to ''evacuate'' all your cum i heard guys have to...i hope i helped you

Okiee

oki i no im a girl and everything but, dont feel embarrassed by it, when i kiss my boyfriend and he gets one i actually like it, im glad he gets one that tell me that hes happy lol so dont look at it in an embarressing way. and by the way if you wear jeans it helps cover it! x

Very commen

ur probly a virgin.almost garuantee it.BUT...if anything she should be flattered that just her kiss would drive you that wild,i know it would with me.

Hi

I had the same problem with my bf.I broke up with him cuz he was cheating on me.So your gf might be cheating on you.



















Makes no sense mate...stop scaring the poor kid

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what !?
because he is having erections has nothing to do wether his gf is cheating on him !
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No worries

no worries hun, im sure ur girlfriends not like offended or anything, sure it might be a lil embarressing to get an erection in public n all but dont worry about it, im sure ur girlfriend would happily help u try to cover it up by maybe like standing in front of u, n beside it a good thing that just kissing her turns u on, its kinda like a compliment to a girl

Problem? not!

You don't give your age but from your writing style I can tell that you're young. What you are experiencing is entirely normal and shows that the 'kit' is working! Enjoy using it young man.

As a (young) middle-aged man I'm ever so jealous. My kit still works but sometimes the wife needs to give it a jump start!

It's okay!!

Well, she is your girlfriend. If you weren't getting an erection, that's the problem. It's nothing wrong with that. Your a guy! Get over it! It's life!!! As long as your wearing jeans that won't let it show as much, then you'll be okay!!!!!

Still happens to me

I've been married for 12 years and I am 39 years old. I still get hard when my wife and I kiss passionately -- it is ok.

Also if you can find a way to talk to her about the problem it could help. Try something like "you make me so hot but I am a little embarassed about getting hard in public. When this happens could you help me cover up?"

Good luck

I agree, she should see it as a compliment!

make a joke of it but its natural.
H

Cant be all bad

my bf gets hard wen we hug, makes me feel sexy, take it as a good thing, but do talk to her bout it if its gettin u down, she'll respect it if shes decent enuf.
Moo



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