Need help spicing up our sex life

My bf and I have been dating for about 3 years now. We also have a child together so things are starting to slow down. Its hard to find any time together especially since he works 3rd shift. Anyways, I was wondering if anyone could me some tips on how to spice things up whenever we do get the chance. I was kinda thinking about introducing watching porn together or something, but I don't even know how to approach him with that idea or any others. Any help is apprecitated. Thanks!

A togetherness time problem

Hi! Falonius:
It kind of looks as if the two of you have a togetherness problem that as a rule also leads to a communication problem Your togetherness time has been reduced so naturally you both are out of touch with each others physical and emotional needs. You both are just going to have to make more time for each other. Yes, Watching Porn together is a first, right step in that direction. Anything that leads to more togetherness will also lead to a better, fulfilling relationship,which is sadly lacking in your lives right now. Do plan things together, get out, nurture your friendships, as they are also the life-blood of our relationships. And the whole world is your oyster and all you have to do is taste it together.

Flaccid entry

Here's something new, it's called Flaccid entry. It is where a man inserts a flaccid (non-erect) penis into his partner's vagina. Now, it's usually for men with ED, but anyone who has self control can do it. Look it up first! Basically, you fold his penis into your vagina and hold it there, and you both concentrate on how it feels inside of you. I wish I could do it, but my husband is too big.

Sexy lingerie

Try some sexy lingerie, it works for me everytime with my husband. Try one of these shops. www.shhhlingerie.co.uk www.pabo.com I have bought lingerie from these before.

Hv u tirres kamasutra and foreplay?

its been 3 years so u guys must be used to eath other touches,why don't u 2 try the diff positions(all of em which ever u feel gud),it might give u a nice experience like u used to hv when u guys got together the first time ,u can also send each other naughty mesages and try other foreplays when r at work or someother place s that might spice things up