Pressure
In this day and age everything is on the man, with women having more sexual freedom, there has been more attention on women, and more riducul on men. Example,
A good frind of mine has a gf for a long time, he was sick and couldn't perform, So the gal bought a sex machine, easy fix for her, broken heart for him.
But as I read it this is not your fault, its the media.
Men suck at sex, if our ... are less than 14" we are too small
you see the point,
Trust this comming from a man, we need encouragement, lots of it.
The fear of him failing to you is making him scared, he wont admit it.
And the whole media of women being so much better that man, is completly false, you will find a link on the bottom,
So help him, make him feel safe confident, make it fun for him, start off with a ... for a few days. Do a few things for him, make him relax.
I am going out with a gal that wanted to make me feel happy, she didn't care at first what went well for her, she was happy that I at least tried to make her feel happy in everything including sex, lol that added 20 mins.
Make him learn, do some research to gether, I found out that men have two orgasms, one is the pleasure and one is the cum, and we can stop the second one and have just as many orgasms as women,
its true, and it works. I shake harder than my gal, (she cums hard too) and after a I found out I can keep going after cumming,
So just make him feel safe, men don't get that anymore and mentally we are broke,
here is that website, it has everything you could need, ladies show your man this he might get very happy so watch out 
best of luck
Mike
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