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Help! i can't masterbate!

No matter how hard I Try I can't get an orgasm from masterbating

any tips?

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Try, try again

You may not be turned on enough, find out what works for you- whether it is watching porn, looking at images or reading erotica. Once you are relaxed and ready, I'd suggest trying different things. All women are different, but most women masterbate by rubbing their clitoris. You may want to try a small circular motion or perhaps using two fingers, one of either side of your clit with a back and forth motion. It is mostly trial and error. Good luck!

No need for a dilly

1. Do you have a removable shower head? If you don't, buy one.
2. If you have a bath tub, scoot to the warm flowing water and let it hammer down on your vagina...awesome
3. Try laying on your stomach in the comfort of your bed. With one hand spread your lips apart and rub with the other. As you're getting wet, soak your clit.

Don't forget to use your imagination!

Two words...

The Rabbit! You can get one from Ann Summers either in store or online. This is the most powerful vibrator I've ever tried and guaranteed to make me come every time. It's the only one all my friends rave about. Maybe once you know you are capable of an orgasm through using a toy, then you won't feel so under pressure to attain it when you use your fingers. Maybe it is because you so much want to come that is holding you back - all that pressure. Chill out and relax and have fun exploring yourself xxx

W/o buying

but any advice for me without buying anything?

Imagination!

mm
you know what?

I actually successfully masturbated for the first time ever, two days in a row just last week..! ( i understand where you're coming from )

i watched a few downloaded short clips and read an erotic story which first got me warmed up(as usually im not that kind of person), and then I used my imagination bigtime. Whilst using my hands I fantasised a scenario with my boy where we were out in a secluded place yadda yadda and just pictured us playing around.

I think the trick is definately imagination ! Think about a scene from a movie or something..!
goodluck! hehe



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