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"Proves she's turning you on!"
Posted by jules438 17 August at 16:18
I hate it if a guy lasts ages, i start doubting my performance and worry he's bored!
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"Works."
Posted by favpos 10 July at 20:47
think of something else when u r about 2 cum . Something dat keep ur mind off sex but stayin hard.
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"You are not alone"
Posted by inoblivion 9 July at 20:12
most men take less than 5 mins
It depends on the woman, too. With some you just finish faster, or they finish you faster...
and it also depends on age and number of times you've had sex before hand
there are techniques that help to control this.
In a nutshell, just as you feel you are starting to accelerate to orgasm, you have to do two things
1. breathe!!! out then in, and keep it regular
2. stop curling your toes!! and try to release your lower muscles
search for "breathing" and "lotus" and "tantic sex" on the net for more answers
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"Change your focus"
Posted by kimbree 6 July at 04:36
If you are quick to cum, you may need to change what it is that your thinking about during intercourse.
In most cases, women need more time than a man to 'get off'. Men are visual creatures and women are imaginitive. It isn't anything your doing wrong, it's just the make up of a woman. Also, our switch is located outside of our bodies and most often require (rubbing) attention.
The next time you find you can't hold out and you havent pleased her, go oral. Maybe if you get her off first there will be no hard feelings later!
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"Zia"
Posted by zia1110 2 July at 16:20
Please don't worry. My husband doesn't last that long either, and I'm not concerned and neither should you be. It's the intimacy of lovemaking that makes lovemaking good. My husband is a good man as I'm sure you are. We hold each other and fondle one another and talk, talk, talk before intercourse. And I love it! So will you and yours.
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"Dont stress!!"
Posted by glynda 1 July at 12:47
hey mate youre so normal!!! just as everyone told you lots of foreplay is the go and enjoy every minute (and stop counting the minutes!!) some fellas last longer...this doesnt automatically make them better lovers...and if sometimes youre a little speedy for your lady maybe you could sit back and admire her handiwork???
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"No worries"
Posted by natienet 29 June at 15:31
Sounds completely normal to me. If you and your partner are both
enjoying it, there's no need to worry. Foreplay usually makes the time
go by. I think you'll be fine, Just keep doing what you're doing.
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"Dont fret"
Posted by buggerlugs 28 June at 15:30
Hiya Jake...please dont fret about it, its what you can do for your partner thats more important, if she is having a great time (just ask her) then whats wrong with that....its not all to do with the penetration side of it...hows about massage and masturbation and of course every womans friend the vibrators.
Dont worry your just fine...
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"Dont worrie!!"
Posted by shelley39 24 June at 10:12
hello jake,
dont worrie my boyfriends the same infact most men are its nothing to worrie about.
shelley x
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"Hi jake x"
Posted by vicky2081 4 July at 03:54
seriously why worrie, you should be happy its 10mins and not 2, but hay if your not happy then fair enought, how about trying a little for play on the ladies just untill they nearly reach that point then you can take over from there then that way you are both getting the pleasure and if that does not work how about looking into the annsummers boy they have some great toys for you men and im more than sure they will help
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"Dont worry"
Posted by tray8 22 June at 23:44
Hi Jake
as I woman I cant advise on tips to help you improve, but I will let you into a secret, you are not abnormal, actually many men last 5min or even less.
me and girls have chatted many a time over the years on all our fellas and some have lasted all of 2 mins whislt others an hour or more,
personally an hour is quite rare, unless booze come into play. So please dont worry, Im sure other ladies on here will tell you how short making love can often be!
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"Oops"
Posted by itscaramel 23 July at 22:50
when you feel the contractions just... stop. inside her. let it calm down, and keep going. repeat as neccesary.
also, try a condom.
most guys last longer because it is less sensitive.
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