Anal sex

hi ya

i was just wondering how many women actually enjoy anal sex? i have never had it and i must admit the thought of it doesnt really excit me at all. but i think my other half likes it and he keeps hinting about it. the other night i thought id give it a go but had to stop straight away as i found it painful and not at all a turn on. Does it really hurt that much? do men really enjoy it??? and is there any tips to help me relax or to stop it being so painful? sorry about all the questions
x x

Never done it

Hey never tried it as well. A few times it was accidental started but that was very painful dont really think i want that to be done to me. But i was very negative abt doing it,am kind of a lil open minded now but it jus seems to painful n i would never be comfortable or beable to concentrate if i felt i needed to poop all the time

Dooooooo it!!

i think if you've tried it once definatley try again... a few positions......... when i did it first time i kinda was in the feotus postion with my outerleg raised really high and he put 'it' in really slowly... yeah it was the pleasure pain thing and not in that order!!! once it was in.. it felt when when he tried pushing it and out to the point i thought i was gona pooh... but you have to tell him niot topull it out to far... the best thing to, is to let him put it in.. it will hurt a bit..may be a few little drinks first to relax!! and then you move rather than him..i'm still paranoid now when he pulls it put because it feels like your gona pooh but i just put my hand over my bum.. and he's cool if he does have pooh on him he'll wash straight away... orgasms are amazing once you get into them.. seriously hun doooooo it!!! try a finger first maybe but loads of lube and try to relax when he puts itin apparently your supposed to bear dwon a bit to open up...good luck xxxx

Thanks

thanks for the advice, think i might give it a try
x x

I did it by accident!!

The first time i ever had anal was by accident (well i think it was, he might have meant it!). We were just having regular sex and it just sort of slipped in without me really realising. Once he was in it was fine and we went really slow. It isn't my favourite thing but defo ok once in a while.

Anal is great!

It does always hurt to start off with but once you have got past that it is fantastic! I would definitely persevere. Plenty of lubrication is the key. Your partner will need to be fairly forceful initially as the muscles will contract automatically (and it is difficult to relax) but he needs to back off immediately and go really slowly until you have got uesd to it. I've heard that it can be easier in the bath as your muscles will relax with the warm water, but haven't tried myself - can anyone comment?

Also I can't give you the male perspective - perhaps someone else can?...

Relax and enjoy! x