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Do men always cum during sex?

If he doesn't, does that mean you're not satisfying him?

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"do men always cum during sex?"

if my guy didn't cum during sex I would feel like I haven't satisfied him but, i know they don't always have to. I don't think that you are not satisfying him i think it has to do with a comfort level for him..

No

I'm 18, I have never come during sex
...Masturbation takes me around 30 minutes and sex has lasted up to 3.5 hours with my girlfriend
She is gorgeous and knows what she's doing, this should comfort u knowing u cud be satisfying him completely he is just not comfortable enough to come,
it's something like 1 in every 10 dudes have this issue, its the third most common problem sexually that men have to deal with
I've been with this girl for about 2 months, mmm I would be lying if i said i wasnt concerned, I'm confident in my abilities as she reaches orgasm quickly...
Those points before me were not a bad idea actually, if she were to ask me(beg!!) for me to come it might work, I'm relatively shy in confronting this issue
I kind of see myself as an alpha male ... strong, smart, fast so talking about this would kind of be admitting weakness ... If u by any chance talk 2 him abt it, and he responds tell me what it is please... I sometimes don't masturbate for a couple days and try with her but to no avail ... It helps but not enough, i reach the point where i have to pleasure myself cause of pain endured
...I'm sure this helped u please help me if u can, theres a program i read about recently on the internet ... something like 50 $ and it was 3 weeks of techniques and procedures, I want an answer, thats all

Wat a liar 3.5 hrs

omg lmao i have to say sumthin no 1 las3.5 hrs without cumin ur a stright liar u probably took breaks lol wow 3.5 hrs mah ass

No they dont

and its usually to do with how many times they've come in the last day or so.

if i've had sex 4 times then the next time within a couple of hours of the last time is unlikely to make me come

Things that make you go hmmmm!

If your guy isn't coming don't fret. Maybe the hum drum of the same old just isn't taking him there.

There are many things you can do to arouse him into sexual bliss.
1. Talk Dirty
2. Play with yourself before and during
3. Ask him to slap your bottom
4. Rub his scrotum or his rectum (or both if you're coordinated enough)
5. Pinch your nipples or lick them if you can reach
6. BEG him to cum all over your tongue, breasts, bottom ect (# 1.)

He may like to masterbate a little too much. Often times those who go overboard in that area have a lot of difficulty cumming during coitis. Make sure this isnt the issue, but be delicate when you ask....some men get really offended.

Its different...

..for every guy i think. With my husband he is not a "minute man" at all and never has been. sex for us is atleast 10 or 15 minutes at the least but usually takes about an hr or longer. He is usually able to cum 99% of the time but there is that 1% that he doesnt. Sometimes its because we just had sex a couple hours before or he is tired or it is hot ( we live in a very hot place and the outside temp gets up to the 120's at times) its not really a big deal for us, we try but eventually if he cant go then he cant go and we just try the next morning or later that day. He always makes sure I come atleast once, and that has never been a problem with him. some positions are less stimulating than others for him though. ask your guy what he likes tell him what you like, dont be shy about sex, be open about your body and your sexuality and have fun with it. tell each other your desires and you will enjoy it

How can u tell

how can u tell ur man has cum?wid me he supposingly cums and gets out frm me but when i look at his **** it seems still erected.what does dat mean?has he not finished and what am i supposed to do??plzzzzzzzz help!!



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