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Do men always cum during sex?

 

If he doesn't, does that mean you're not satisfying him?


 

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Never had an orgasm

ive never had an orgasm and dont ejeculate when i masturbate no matter how hard i try, i am now 20 and dont know problem however sometimes when i wake up i see white stuff around my croutch meaning that i ejaculated but those are the only times that i do

 

Not necessarily

In my marriage it would take me about a minute to cum. I hated it. I felt uncomfortable during sex, always. Since we have split I don't always cum. Sometimes I last minutes and others I last hours. This past weekend I came once in about 30 minutes, and then we went on for about 12 hours of play and lots of sex. I didn't always cum, but it was very satisfying. I came twice in that time. We had a great time.

I was very focused on the orgasm with my wife. The past few women I have been with, I have been focused on the whole experience, and there have been a few times that I just did not come, and it was still great.

 

Of course not

Rather a silly question I have to say. As men usually come at the end of sex (hence it is called a climax), if they don't reach the end then they won't come. Reasons for this can be many - the sex is interrupted, he gets tired, you get tired etc.

Ignore the suggestions about asking him not to masturbate or watch porn beforehand. Yes, of course, he shouldn't masturbate just before, but a day before is going to make no difference whatsoever. Maybe if he watched porn just before it could help? Even better, watch it together as part of foreplay. Obviously choose something that you both enjoy. You could even act it out when you start having sex.

Apart from the medical problems mentioned by others, some drugs can cause difficulties in reaching orgasm - particularly anti-depressants. But a good doctor can recommend solutions.

 

Tell him to stop masturbating

Tell him to stop masturbating and watching porn for 2 weeks, have sex then. I think it's better solution for both of you.

 

"do men always cum during sex?"

if my guy didn't cum during sex I would feel like I haven't satisfied him but, i know they don't always have to. I don't think that you are not satisfying him i think it has to do with a comfort level for him..

 

No men do not always ejaculate.

by:marineonleave

Common Ejaculation Problems

When it comes to ejaculation, there are basically three different things that can go wrong.

* Premature ejaculation is by far the biggest complaint that men have about their sexual performance. After studying data gathered by the National Health and Social Life Survey, sociologist Edward Laumann, PhD, estimated that a third of American men complain that they ejaculate too quickly. They want to last longer during intercourse to prolong the pleasure, both for themselves and their partners.


* Delayed ejaculation (or retarded ejaculation) affects a much smaller number of men - as few as 3%, according to some estimates. It's one of the most poorly understood ejaculation problems. Some men cannot reach orgasm at all, at least not with a partner.


* Retrograde ejaculation is the least common of the ejaculation problems. It causes semen to back into the bladder during orgasm instead of exiting by way of the penis. The semen is then later flushed out when you urinate.

Retrograde ejaculation can be caused by diabetes, nerve damage, various medications, and surgery that disturbs the sphincter muscle. It's harmless and won't interfere with the feeling of orgasm. (It can also make for an easy post-sex clean-up.) But since it does affect fertility, some men may need treatment if their partners are trying to get pregnant.

 

I need some help

by:steph11231

I did have sex with my boyfriend last night, it was the first time we did it. I did not feel anything (no ejaculation) I went into the bathroom after, there was nothing there, no white liquid or anything. I do not want to get pregnant, does that mean he didnt do it or no? I am scared of getting pregnant

 

And what if

by:naughtyfrenchy

you just asked him? He would tell you if he ejaculated in you or not.
But if you really don't want to be pregnant, you'd better take contraceptive pills Or any other contraceptive way...

 

I am 19 and have not ejaculated one time

by:marineonleave

I have not ejaculate din over 4 years now, and I did some research in why this might happen.. I mean four hours of sex and no ejaculation is just crazy. my last sex session was three days ago and lasted almost five hours, before coming frustrated and giving up.

So above is the research I have came to abide by.

 

No

I'm 18, I have never come during sex
...Masturbation takes me around 30 minutes and sex has lasted up to 3.5 hours with my girlfriend
She is gorgeous and knows what she's doing, this should comfort u knowing u cud be satisfying him completely he is just not comfortable enough to come,
it's something like 1 in every 10 dudes have this issue, its the third most common problem sexually that men have to deal with
I've been with this girl for about 2 months, mmm I would be lying if i said i wasnt concerned, I'm confident in my abilities as she reaches orgasm quickly...
Those points before me were not a bad idea actually, if she were to ask me(beg!!) for me to come it might work, I'm relatively shy in confronting this issue
I kind of see myself as an alpha male ... strong, smart, fast so talking about this would kind of be admitting weakness ... If u by any chance talk 2 him abt it, and he responds tell me what it is please... I sometimes don't masturbate for a couple days and try with her but to no avail ... It helps but not enough, i reach the point where i have to pleasure myself cause of pain endured
...I'm sure this helped u please help me if u can, theres a program i read about recently on the internet ... something like 50 $ and it was 3 weeks of techniques and procedures, I want an answer, thats all

 

Confused.

by:cees1

I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now for the first year and abit he was all over me! wouldn't leave me alone and would always come without fail he admitted to me the other week he'd only stopped smoking weed 4 months ago he'd been hiding it from me cause i dont like drugs, hes promised me he hasn't done it in 4 months and hes going to apply for the police i don't know weather the after effects of stopping weed have made his suddenly go like this or if its me? recently he keept flopping and saying its not you i duno what it is your beautiful and then when we had a row he called me a fat ugly tramp :/ and then said sorry and he was angry and didnt mean it and now its does go up and stay up hes just stopped coming with me now and says do you want to stop i dont mind your nakerd and so am i so i just said yeah but he used to be like when i wanted to stop sometimes hed be like two secs i'm going to cum and now he doesnt seem bothered atall anymore also today i went to look at the valentines card i got him when wed been together 11 months i opened the envelope and inside it with my card was a sex book with loads of naked girls so maybe hes been ... over them but he insist he loves me and that and i said to him if you want other experiences with other girls we can leave things and he said i do but i dont want to leave you its not worth leaving what we have, but i dont even feel like he wants me sometimes

 

Wat a liar 3.5 hrs

by:tempting1

omg lmao i have to say sumthin no 1 las3.5 hrs without cumin ur a stright liar u probably took breaks lol wow 3.5 hrs mah ass

 

Probably not

by:hksteve

Good sex should last a long time. It is not just a case of legs apart and banging away. It should involve a lot of foreplay: kissing, stroking and touching all parts of the body before any real sexual contact. Then it is good to go to the brink of orgasm before backing off and do this several times. This should lead to a powerful climax for both parties. Also bear in mind that the position can accelerate or slow delay the climax. 3.5 hours is realistic and achievable.

 

Not a liar

by:justomg

i have often had the same problem where i have not cum for up to 3.5 hrs aswell maybe longer. It is a very frustrating to have this happen and i find your comment both insulting and ignorant. If you had done some research before replying and accusing them of being a liar, you will have found that this is a common problem.It is nothing to be ridiculed.

 

No they dont

and its usually to do with how many times they've come in the last day or so.

if i've had sex 4 times then the next time within a couple of hours of the last time is unlikely to make me come

 

Things that make you go hmmmm!

If your guy isn't coming don't fret. Maybe the hum drum of the same old just isn't taking him there.

There are many things you can do to arouse him into sexual bliss.
1. Talk Dirty
2. Play with yourself before and during
3. Ask him to slap your bottom
4. Rub his scrotum or his rectum (or both if you're coordinated enough)
5. Pinch your nipples or lick them if you can reach
6. BEG him to cum all over your tongue, breasts, bottom ect (# 1.)

He may like to masterbate a little too much. Often times those who go overboard in that area have a lot of difficulty cumming during coitis. Make sure this isnt the issue, but be delicate when you ask....some men get really offended.

 

Its different...

..for every guy i think. With my husband he is not a "minute man" at all and never has been. sex for us is atleast 10 or 15 minutes at the least but usually takes about an hr or longer. He is usually able to cum 99% of the time but there is that 1% that he doesnt. Sometimes its because we just had sex a couple hours before or he is tired or it is hot ( we live in a very hot place and the outside temp gets up to the 120's at times) its not really a big deal for us, we try but eventually if he cant go then he cant go and we just try the next morning or later that day. He always makes sure I come atleast once, and that has never been a problem with him. some positions are less stimulating than others for him though. ask your guy what he likes tell him what you like, dont be shy about sex, be open about your body and your sexuality and have fun with it. tell each other your desires and you will enjoy it

 

How can u tell

by:turnmeon1

how can u tell ur man has cum?wid me he supposingly cums and gets out frm me but when i look at his **** it seems still erected.what does dat mean?has he not finished and what am i supposed to do??plzzzzzzzz help!!

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