Squirting

ok dunno how to say this but my fella wont accept that ive had an orgasum unless i squirt is this something we can all do if were relaxed and turned on enough or what ?
please help its causing a bit of friction
lorny
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Hi

Well i am one of the "lucky" women who can squirt.
To be honest my bf doesnt make me come (squirt) that often. I usually squirt when im masturbating.
For this its normally clitoral, with my fingers.
My partner has only ever made me squirt once through intercourse and a few timeswhen fingering and licking me, but not often. which i don't mind, but he gets annoyed that he cant make me squirt all the time, and i find that the pressure of wanting to squirt actually stresses me out and then i cant. I can only squirt when im fully relaxed and totally at ease and not thinkiong of squirting but of me and my partner making love.
Don't worry though not many women can squirt and i only found i could when i started to explore my body and found out what i liked, and found that i could squirt.
Try things on your own, and if you squirt try and incorparate that into your sex life.
But dry orgasms are amazing too, and let him know that you have had an orgasm, but a "dry" one.
If he doesnt understand and keeps on at you then you are never gonna achieve this because of the pressure and added stress.
Laura x x

Bull!

I've orgasmed plenty of times and not once have I ever squirted (altho I'd love to! Squirting is something that only happens to a lucky few and it sounds like he is hoping that one day it will be you! You cannot force your body to do something that is really difficult to achieve and it is really unfair of him to expect you to! Of course you've bloody orgasmed and that alone should make him happy! Squirting is just a more intense form of orgasm. I don't mean to sound awful but this man doesn't sound very nice?! Don't put up with it xxx

However..

If squirting is something you really want to try to please him (and you), then maybe do some research on the best techniques and have a lot of (patient) practice xxx

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i thought that only happened in porns when the guy comes and she shoots it out.

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