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Anal sex
Anal sex is excellent - go for it.
The first couple of times might be a little painful, but after that you'll enjoy it.
I can't get enough of the stuff 
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Strap on
Just go with the flow, my girlfriend first suggested the idea to me, although nervous at first once she lubed me up I enjoyed the sensation. With a reasonable sized strap on you hit the prostate which is really intense. We've got a Purple Penetrator, 6 inches which is a good starting size. She loved being in control, also it has a vibrating bullet which she can control the intensity of vibration she gets. Alternatively we use a double ended dildo which gives us both as much pleasure. Just make sure you loosen him up first.
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Anal sex
Ask him why he wants to have anal sex and talk about it and ask questions. If after his answers have answered your worries make sure u are pleasured first, then make sure u use lubricant like baby oil on him and he must go very slowly into you and stop when u say. It may take a few tries over time and you may decide not to go ahead. i only had anal sex with one boyfriend who i trusted and i am not going to lie and say it didnt hurt at first because it did, but we perservered and i have to admit i really enjoyed it and had a massive orgasim. I am not bothered if i never do it again to be honest, but i am one of those people who will try anything once. good luck to you, but do not ever do anything that you dont feel comfortable with, and make sure you both continue to have normal sex and only having anal sex occasionally. Have fun
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Anal sex and enemas
Anal sex is a lot easier and cleaner if the rectum is first emptied. This can be done quickly and easily with a small volume enema, using plain warm water and holding it for about 10 minutes. It can be fun if the enema is given by your partner!
You may well find that having an enema administered by a loving partner can be as much fun as regular sex and if you are feeling very adventurous have your partner make anal love to you whilst you are still retaining the enema!
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Preparation
It sounds to me as alot of you have not had anal sex before!
It is hardly romantic to go through all the rigmarolls that these kind threaders suggest. Do it but only if you want to.
The concern should be that once your BF has gone through the complete card with you he will seek new pastures.
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Make sure its well lubed
Make sure your bum is well lubed up. start of letting him put a finger then 2 in. He needs to go slow and just relax.......you can buy lubes and anal toys on line to get started...also, if he does like it, you can always get a strap on and do him up the bum as well. a lot of men find this a turn on and he will also be on the recieving end.
http://www.4-playheaven.co.uk for lubes and anal toys
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For those of you worrying about mess
ok so you've been talked into trying it! but it is after all an exit hole so your concerned about...well exiting!! ok, first thing in the morning on an empty tummy down two pints of luke warm water with two level teaspoons of salt in it, stay in the house for at least an hour (3 is best tho!) and it will all come flushing out so your nice and clean!! this much easier and a lot less damaging than an enema. (note: the salt doesnt stay in your system its used so the water is the same volume as blood so your body doesnt absorb the water it just passes it thru!) so your nice and clean and free to enjoy yourself!!! also get really hot and bothered first!!! its grrrrrreat!!!!
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Mess etc
i had a bad experiemce with an ex boyfriend - not mess wise - just pain wise  . it has put me off of anal sex ever since. however, i am now seeing a guy who wants to try it and i have found myself gtting very curious about it, as long as it's done right. i worry that it wil hurt again but also that i will make a mess and out him off. what's the best way to ensure i am completely 'clean' down there?
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Anal sex
what decision have you come too about allowing your boyfriend to perform oral sex on you.
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Anal sex"
if you don't want to try it then don't do it.
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Give anal sex a go
i have regular anal sex with my girlfriend and it is awesome , believe me you will love it, just take it easy at first ,if you are worried about it hurting use KY jelly ,what is important is personal hygiene.
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Nothing to lose
my girl friend regularly uses a 6 inch Purple Penetrator on me, we use a thick cream lube as opposed to the thinner water based types. She loves the feeling of being in control and also it has a vibrator for the wearer as well. Have just ordered an 8 inch strap on from Bondaras. We also use a double ended dildo so both of us get the pleasure, just make sure your clean before you start, lay on a large towel if you dont want any mess on your bedding and go easy first, let her ease you open with her fingers before going straight in with the strap on, lie back and relax or use the doggy position, spread your knees, legs out wide.
Enjoy
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It hurts
I think you have guts if you are gonna go there but i think that hole is for ... and ... only
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Been there, done that -drunk of course
the first time i had anal sex i was drunk off my ass and can remember it being somewhat uncomfortable and weird. the pain didnt really occur until the next day when i sat down to go the bathroom. talk about "pain in the ass"!!!anyways, i have had anal sex about 8 times with different men and i was drunk for all of them. after the first few times it starts to be somewhat fun for both of you? my advice-- ky jelly and four shots of vodka.
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Let him massage your ring first
The way I found most relaxing is to let your bf massage between your legs and to go slowly around your asshole. He should go from your pussy up while his thump is going around your ring. Slowly pressing his thump with a lot of vesaline. Now he can rub his pennis against your butt while your stomach on the bed. He should first dip it in your pussy to get some juice out (by now you should be dripping wet)!! With the help of your juice and the vesaline and some sslight pressure the gate should be open by now and you will moaning from pleasure!!
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I think ur mad!
Anal Sex Is For Elton John Stop Being A Copycat You Menace to Society
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Truly safe sex
there's ZERO risk of pregnancy with anal sex.. so there's no chance you'll be faced with the temptation to slaughter your own accidentally conceived child in the name of convenience.
everybody wins. you both get off doing something adventurous and you don't have to mess with hormones to do it
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Agreement
I've done it several times, with just about every boyfriend I've had. Men derive sexual pleasure by having anal sex (not giving but receiving) because of the prostrate gland that rubs up against that area. Women (like us) don't specifically derive pleasure from it in that way, but I like it.
As others have said, the most important things are work up to it with fingers (in a condom helps), then tip of penis, then slowly, inch by inch, stopping to get used to it. You should be bearing down (like a number 2, but don't worry, this wont' happen) before he puts that in, which moves the inner ring to the outside (otherwise it will hurt). Use LOTS of lube. Also, having the guy on top helps, as you can control penetration depth. Once you get used to it, it can be a huge turn-on, as it's definitely a little deviant and guys can really get off on it. Practical thing: I'd also recommend that you've gone to the bathroom (number 2) that day before you do it, as it doesn't feel as good for guys if you haven't (I know that sounds gross).
Women by and large are very afraid of it, but it's not bad, as long as you take the time to learn what to do.
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Anal sex
Hello, iam 21 and ive tried anal sex twice with my boyfriend. I know how you feel, it is very daunting at first, as many people say its horrible and it shouldn't happen. But my boyfriend wanted to try it so i said ok. It hurts a little when they first put it in, but if he does it slowly at first and then starts getting a little faster each time, it starts to feel really good, in a wierd way! Try it but dont be to scared, just relax.
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