Is this the best position if your bf is on the big side?
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It's only natural that you want to explore each other and anal sex can be wonderful for both of you, but you're right, it can be painful if it's charged at by the guy!
First, get a really good lube designed for anal sex. We can recommend Pjur, ANALyse Me, which we use all the time and you can get on the high street at Ann Summers shops.
Second, SLOW is the key! A penis is a big thing to push in there, so start off by having your boyfriend lube a finger and massage you gently around the outside of your anus. As you relax, you'll find that this feels lovely, and will naturally relax your muscles. As you do, he can gently slip further into you, making sure that there's always plenty of lube, and soon you'll find that he can slip his finger fully inside you.
Keep this up, with him changing finger, inserting two as you relax further. After maybe 30 or 40 minutes, you'll find that if he lubes his penis, he'll be able to ease the head in slowly. This is the trickiest part, and you should both spend plenty of time easing this gently, and making sure that you let him know all the time - stop - gently - a little more, and so on. When it's right, you'll find that suddenly he just slips inside you, and from there on, it's a breeze! )
Good luck, and I hope you discover the fun of anal sex soon. There's nothing compares to the feel of your man's cum exploding deep in your ass. I usually finger myself as he's inside me so that we cum at the same time. Wonderful!
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I am not experienced about anal sex. I haven't try it yet. Some people enjoy it some don't. You can try with extra lubricant.
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Use a lot of lube and take it very slowly. I can't say I ever got that much enjoyment from it or would want to be regularly having anal sex but felt I should try it as one of life's experiences!
I also not have any experience to do the same thing but I must want to try. but I am afraid because of it's side effect.
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Try it out at least once and don't forget some lube.
Like everyone has said foreplay is the key, some people even buy anal trailing plugs. justanal.co.uk is great.
To me it always hurts.
Some people enjoy it some not. It's not my thing.
Anal sex can be very enjoyable if done the proper way.....it has to be taken slowly, your partner has to arouse you properly and bring you to a certain stage of excitement in which you feel completely relaxed with all your body and ready for something new, if he/she is good with his/her tongue and hands you will already understand if you are up for it. I suggest perfumed body oils for massages to be poured all over you and caressed everywhere, it certainly gets you in the wright mood for it.....
i am 21yo boy have a sex with girls now i want anal sex is it ok for boys i want to go for it once but litel afraid
i am 21yo boy have a sex witanal sex is it ok for boys i want to go for it once but litel afraid
i am 21 have sex withe girls but now i want to have anal sex is it painful is it ok with girls toy r i have to go withe boy
Hi...I am a 44 year old woman and have done that a few times.I personally can do without it.I dont believe a woman can orgasm like that,I have done it for his pleasure,I will tell you it is painful but if he works with you and loosens you up..it will be better.I have found that at least starting out on our side and having him enter,is less painful and gives you time to adjust and then maybe a different position.Do not let him enter your vagina after anal sex without claening first...you will get an infection.Good luck.
It is worth trying, stop if u do not like it. Take your time when u feel u are ready, recommend u2 play with dildo to start with.
hìi, don't worry,use lubricants during anal sex, and anal foreplay is must. We can use sex toys also. by the way i am also willing to do anal sex with my gf but i am confused how to tell her,plz help me in this regard.