To me it always hurts.
Some people enjoy it some not. It's not my thing.
Anal sex can be very enjoyable if done the proper way.....it has to be taken slowly, your partner has to arouse you properly and bring you to a certain stage of excitement in which you feel completely relaxed with all your body and ready for something new, if he/she is good with his/her tongue and hands you will already understand if you are up for it. I suggest perfumed body oils for massages to be poured all over you and caressed everywhere, it certainly gets you in the wright mood for it.....
i am 21yo boy have a sex with girls now i want anal sex is it ok for boys i want to go for it once but litel afraid
i am 21yo boy have a sex witanal sex is it ok for boys i want to go for it once but litel afraid
i am 21 have sex withe girls but now i want to have anal sex is it painful is it ok with girls toy r i have to go withe boy
Hi...I am a 44 year old woman and have done that a few times.I personally can do without it.I dont believe a woman can orgasm like that,I have done it for his pleasure,I will tell you it is painful but if he works with you and loosens you up..it will be better.I have found that at least starting out on our side and having him enter,is less painful and gives you time to adjust and then maybe a different position.Do not let him enter your vagina after anal sex without claening first...you will get an infection.Good luck.
It is worth trying, stop if u do not like it. Take your time when u feel u are ready, recommend u2 play with dildo to start with.
hìi, don't worry,use lubricants during anal sex, and anal foreplay is must. We can use sex toys also. by the way i am also willing to do anal sex with my gf but i am confused how to tell her,plz help me in this regard.
I understand your situation. I'm a guy and I would NEVER pressure my girlfriend into anal sex.
You have to make sure you are comfortable with it. Anal sex can be very pleasurable for both partners, but you need to take it slowly and gently (if you decide to try it).
You also need to use a good lubricant to make it easier for you. And ask your boyfriend to be very gentle at first.
Some women love anal sex. Others don't like it. You can only find out by trying.
But just make sure you feel comfortable. It's your body and you have the right to say "no" if you don't like it.
By the way, if you (or your boyfriend) are ever interested in sexual matters that concern men, you may want to check out this <a ="http://www.penishealth-review.com">penis health review</a> site, which discusses sex-related issues, mostly from a male perspective.
It may give you some idea as to how men think, which will help you with your boyfriend!
Anyway, good luck with it all and make sure you're happy!
am 20yo and have been having anal for 5 years now fairly regularly and i mostly enjoy it a lot but sometimes not and i think its cos its so tight guys cum real quick sometimes and its a bit not fun.
If you are scared or nervous it wont be good so maybe get a little drunk the first time or whatever calms you down.
the salt water works good for cleaning.
Dont worry if he is big down there if he is gentle and patient it will all go in.
play with your clit before and during will help too.
sorry if this seems very forward but:
my gf's main concern with trying anal is that "i'll have some lose arsehole and won't be able to keep in a fart let alone other stuff" so as a woman who has partaken in the act for five years i was wondering whether you could shed some light on this issue for her with your own experience cos it's all very well and good me saying that'll only happen if you abuse it but then it just sounds like i'm pressuring and just trying to get her to do it and that's no good so i'd be grateful to hear what you have to say =]
If you do it slowly, sensually and are relaxed enough it will feel like Heaven. I think the main thing is to make sure you want to do it, if you are too nervous or apprehensive it may be an uncomfortable experience. Try to enjoy it and it will bring you imense pleasure
Anal sex most often refers to the sex act involving insertion of the penis into the anus. Anal sex is when one person places an erect penis, finger, or object into the anus of another person to give and receive sexual pleasure. Many people enjoy anal stimulation. Anal sex positions involve anal penetration. Most anal sex positions are adaptations of vaginal penetrative positions: Doggy style penetration maximizes the depth of penetration, but can pose the risk of pushing against the sigmoid colon.
Anal sex is excellent - go for it.
The first couple of times might be a little painful, but after that you'll enjoy it.
I can't get enough of the stuff
Just go with the flow, my girlfriend first suggested the idea to me, although nervous at first once she lubed me up I enjoyed the sensation. With a reasonable sized strap on you hit the prostate which is really intense. We've got a Purple Penetrator, 6 inches which is a good starting size. She loved being in control, also it has a vibrating bullet which she can control the intensity of vibration she gets. Alternatively we use a double ended dildo which gives us both as much pleasure. Just make sure you loosen him up first.
Ask him why he wants to have anal sex and talk about it and ask questions. If after his answers have answered your worries make sure u are pleasured first, then make sure u use lubricant like baby oil on him and he must go very slowly into you and stop when u say. It may take a few tries over time and you may decide not to go ahead. i only had anal sex with one boyfriend who i trusted and i am not going to lie and say it didnt hurt at first because it did, but we perservered and i have to admit i really enjoyed it and had a massive orgasim. I am not bothered if i never do it again to be honest, but i am one of those people who will try anything once. good luck to you, but do not ever do anything that you dont feel comfortable with, and make sure you both continue to have normal sex and only having anal sex occasionally. Have fun
Anal sex is a lot easier and cleaner if the rectum is first emptied. This can be done quickly and easily with a small volume enema, using plain warm water and holding it for about 10 minutes. It can be fun if the enema is given by your partner!
You may well find that having an enema administered by a loving partner can be as much fun as regular sex and if you are feeling very adventurous have your partner make anal love to you whilst you are still retaining the enema!
It sounds to me as alot of you have not had anal sex before!
It is hardly romantic to go through all the rigmarolls that these kind threaders suggest. Do it but only if you want to.
The concern should be that once your BF has gone through the complete card with you he will seek new pastures.
Agree with morgan582, it's not necessary at all to have an enema before anal sex, but hopping into the shower beforehand might make you feel more at ease with the whole thing.