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No rush
There's no rush when you're supposed to have sex. When you're ready, you're ready and it's best to wait until that time comes rather than feel pressured because your friends are all doing it. I know it sounds stupid, but your virginity is one of the most precious things you can hold onto because no matter what after that, you can't re-do the first time you've had sex with someone. I lost my virginity at 17 and I'm glad I waited until that age because at 13/14 you're still confused and your hormones are all over the place (which is equally as evident with 17/18 year olds, but at least the raging hormones have somewhat settled down at this point), so when you believe you're "in love" with someone, you might just be infatuated and will only realise this after you've had sex with the guy (or girl).
I'd say leave it for now as there are more important things going on for girls your age and first time sex shouldn't be your priority! And you'll be happier in the long run if you wait until you've met the right person first (doesn't have to be your soul mate/significant other or whatnot; just someone special enough to realise what it means to lose your virginity).
Good luck!
Ly x
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i was in your same postion girl!! oh im so glad i didnt! im thirteen and proudly still havent popped my cherry. this past summer i went on vacation with my mom her boss and her boosses nephews and a few other people to california. one nephew was about my age hes five months older than me. we hung out a lot there and had tons of fun JUST hangin out. we didnt do it. we didnt even kiss. later when i came back to kentucky we started txting and relized that we both liked each other. we started having phone sex and i could teel him anything, fom wen i was changing my tampon to me fingering myself. just beeing with him seemed to be the best moments of my life! well they were i guess but thats not the piont. i had only known him for three months and i was in love with him. we were making plans to do it, how many kids we would have, what we would name them, were we would go to college together, everthing. then an atractive guy moved back to my school that had moved to hawaii last year and i relized that i wasnt the LDR(long distance relationship) kinda girl. so i broke up with my very first love and when i did we still kept in touch (until now 7 months after i broke up with him) and he told me he didnt plan on having sex with me. he didnt plan on stayin with me forever, i still dont even know if he loved me, even though he said he did. i wish you luck chickee and i wish you no broken hearts down the love road.
xxx silvia
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Dont please
i wouldnt if i was u sweetheart.
at your age your not fully grown and may not understand the subject as much as u think.
i no a girl who had sex for the first time at your age and got pregnant.
wait for a guy who you really love to come along and when you feel u are ready go ahead, just be safe.
but dont just loose it for the sake that your friends have, they will regret it eventually, trust me 
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Np
dont do it until ur older and ready its just stupid to do it because u mates did
think sensibly ur mates r probably making it up anyway
take my advice
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Omg!!!
I dont think ya shud im 12 and im still a virgin and i wont loose tht until im with the rite guy tht i can trust. Dont do it something coul go rong tht cud u or both of you its not rite and i dnt know y everybody has sex so young youve got ya life ahead of ya dont waste it with sex while ya tht young!! Ya could get pregnant and ruin ya life there is no point esspesialy if ya not ready xx
Dont do anything Stupid xx
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Sex at 13/14"
I still feel you should wait until you are ready what if you do "it" and it isn't as amazing as everyone says. Wait until you are truley in love before you rush into having sex.
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Its good to wait 
girl if you aint ready to have sex then dont. you will only regret it when you do, its only rly amazing when its with the right guy and when you're truly ready! do not listen to your m8s if u have told them how u feel and they're still pressurising you then thats not good of them at all. they may want you to do it too so that they dont feel so bad having done it themselves.
Wait for the right time cud be a few months or a few years whatever is right for you, ppl will respect you more and you will keep your self respect! keep strong it will be worth it in the end honest...
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 hell yea datz bad wat da ...
GURL WAT DA FUK DONT HAV SEX AT DAT AGE IM 15 AN IVE BEEN DAR.......DONT LISTEN 2 UR FRIENDZ CAUSE I SHOW AS HELL KNOW DAT IF U DA 1 DAT GET PREGNANT DAT UR FRIENDZ AINT GONA BE DAR 2 TAK CARE OF U AN UR BABE .....IM NOT SAYEN DAT I WUZ PREGNANAT CAUSE EVEN NOW IM STILLL A VERGIN DONT LOSE IT UNLESS U WANT UR MOMZ 2 KICK UR AXX OUT DA MOTHER ... HOUSE DONT DO IT.....I ALSO HAV A FRIEND LIVIN WIT MI WIT HA BABE AN MY PARENTZ....AN IM SO NOT LYIN BOUT DIZ ... DONT DO IT....
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Sex
Heyy
i had sex today for the first time and im only 14 im telling youu it hurts the first time n den wen yh it keeps going its great
dnt listen to your friends 
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Ewww 
WAT DA ... UR 14 R U SICK......UR A VERY NASTY PERSON IF I WUZ UR MAMA AN I HERD DAT ....SORY...BUT I WOULD HAV KICKED DA ... OUT OF UR AXX U NASTY.....AN UR GONA KEEP DOIN IT AN UR GONA GET PREGNANT.......WATCH
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Receive and then you shall give
My response is the same as for a girl of any age. Don't let him stick his pecker into you until he's learned how to give you an orgasm through oral sex. Especially when you are young, there are a lot of guys who wouldn't give your pleasure a second thought. They know you are naive and can easily be talked into letting them cum in you and walking away. I'm shocked at how many young girls in these times give ... without anything in return. And these are girls who know that they can have orgasms and feel fantastically wonderful during sex. Sex is about his pleasure and YOUR pleasure. It don't matter what age you are as long as your partner is willing to please you too.
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Dont worry
im 13 and i have had sex but none of my friends have
toyr first time should be speacial and to make it speacial have sex with some 1 you love and feel comfidble with
dont get pressuerd into it you should do it all in your own time
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NOT 2 BE MEAN BUT WAT DA F****.......THE BEGINING OF UR MEASSAGE IZ SICK BUT DA ENDEN IZ RIGHT
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Don't do it!
I have seen such girls getting rammed and screwed by older boys. Its quite nasty!
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Don't worry
Listen sweetpea, its not about your mates, its about you.
Don't feel you need to have sex because they are, or are they?
Many girls your age lie about having sex to make them look 'cool  ', when realy it does the total opposite.
Im not going to say wait for 'mr right' or 'somebody you love', but just wait until your comfortable and feel one hundred percent sure your ready.
i hope i've helped a little, xx
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Heyy
im in the same position atm :/ my mates told me it really hurt and stuff but then its reli good
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Im 14 and iv lost my virginity...i didnt think it was tht bad bt i wasnt forced into it
i think if my mates had sed to me to do it and i wasnt ready or hadnt found the right guy to lost it to then i wouldnt have...
i would have only been concerned with what i wanted to do
good luck
x
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Hi im 14 and peer pressure is really tough but its ur life and u shud be able to do wat u want with it
if ur not ready then dont do it wait until someone u really love comes along
hope thats helped
x
private message me to talk more
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I don' t think so
I think its better to wait.after all what the rush..it can always be there in the future..plenty of it.
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 in my opinion totally wrong!!!!!
most of those idiots are lying and prob never done it they say it to look good!!!!
ure not cool just cos uve had sex infact u wont be laughin when ure pregnant!!!!
i would go with ure gut instinct dont do it if it doesnt feel right no point wait until u find the right person at the right time and correct LEGAL AGE!!!!!
i hate ppl who try and boast yer its amazing but only if u know how to do it and at 13/14 my lil sis age u blatantley dont know how to do it!!!!!!!
pm if u wanna chat babe XXXXX
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