Need advice. embarassing prob. x

Hiya,
PLEASE DONT LAUGH.
.Im new to this site but im needing some advice as to whether this is normal. Basically after my partner and i have had sex, cum starts to leak out of my vagina, even if i dont get up till the next morning it still happens. Ive tried tilting up my hips after sex but nothing works. Ive got three young children and we've been trying trying for another baby for about 6 months, im starting to thing whether this leakage has something to do with it.?? Ive not been on the pill for two years so i know this has nothing to do with it. Im only 22.

Also during sex my vagina makes noises when my partner thrusts in and out.(farting noises? It may be because ivehad three kids but is there any way of preventing this as its really embarassing when it happens.
Any advive would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks

Keeley xx

Caution!

With all due respect to thelady who advised you to hold yourself when having a wee, don't do this on a regular basis. (i work in a hospital and have this one on authority from the doctors) If you hold your muscles during peeing to stop yourself , you may end up with a water infection. It' s something to do with the wee going back into the upper tube and taking germs up there with it. I 'm guilty of doing this myself occasionally just to see how good my pelvic muscles are working, but not on a regular basis... deffinately do the pelvic floor muscles, they do make a difference, but not when weeing. Also, boots, used to do some weights that you put in your vagina (you increase the weights as your muscles develop), but I have never used them. The pf excersises seem to be good.
As for the noises, this could be because the vaginal flaps may be more open after having children (and I'm only guessing), thus allowing more air into the vagina, however this does NOT mean the actual vagina (your internal area) in neccessarily bigger than before childbirth, so best to sit and talk to your partner and explain you're a bit embarrassed with the noise thing, and I bet he really doesn't care. In my experience, men notice far less than we women do, we just tend to worry about things they don't even care about.x

Need advice. embarassing prob

that is very normal,the semen will come back out. i don't think that is why you can't get pregnant or you would have never gottne pregnant maybe you are just not doing the do at the right time.

For keeley

seriously dont worry its totally normal ur vagina cannot hold all the semen ur partner ejaculates and sometimes it doesnt come out straight away as it takes a while for ur vagina to relax. Also the 'farting' noises, wel as ur partner thrusts he is putting a bit air into you, this is not a problem so relax its normal.

Maybe

I think you should try an excersise to tighten your inner muscles.even when you are haveing sex with your man try to sqeez the muscles inside your virgina .You can also do this when u are alone for practice.The best way I was taught when I was growing up is..when you go to pee..when pee is in full force try to hold and release hold release..se is you can hold and no drop can come out.thats the excercise u should do even when u are not peeing.Try that ,it might be because your inner muscles are a bit loose thats why you have that problem...

... fart

I think the farting might just be queefing (I know it sounds funny but its just trapped air escaping ) and its perfectly natural
Im not sure bout the other thing, but hope you get an answer
Sunny
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