Slept with ex

Feel so stupid.
Begged to see him, made total idiot of myself... I know he is seeing someone else and doesn't care about me, or his son.

And it so wasn't worth it.

How do I feel better?!

I dont how u can feel better but

hi i dont know but if u knoww he was seeing someone else than u shouldn't gone out with him anyway am 13 going onto 14 so u dont have 2 listen 2 me

Slept with ex

don't waste your time feeling stupid, forget about him and concentrate on your son.

Just something i would do

hey i think that you should just move on this man if you want to call him a man sounds a complete jerk if he doesnt care about his son i think that you should get over him by spending time with your son and going out with mates but dont go out with mates to meet someone new to get back at him because he'll know what you need to do is go out have a laugh and let them come to you have a flirt and build your confidence up again you shouldnt be wasting your time on a jerk like that he has deffinatley missed out big time on a family belive me my dad walked out on me when i was little and he's now paying for it this man is just going to miss out on the best times of your sons life by being selfish look at his rejection as a new start for you and your son and think this is a new start for me i can have my life the way i like it and not be tip toeing around him you really dont need him in your life. you dont need 2 children in your life wait for a proper relationship where it works both ways i hope this will help you lol

Don't feel bad

I slept with my ex for up to 3yrs after we broke it off. I thought one day we would get back together but we didn't. Then I thought that would make him want to help me take care of our kid buit that didn't neither. Sometimes having sex with them and feeling it wasn't worth it helps you get over them.

Don't worry about it!

YOU REALLY SHOULD TRY NOT TO WORRY.
AFTER ALL IT IS ONLY NORMAL TO STILL WANT HIM.
ANYWAY HE MUST NOT CARE ABOUT HER EITHER, AFTERALL HE DID SLEEP WITH YOU AND IT TAKES 2!
SOOO, FORGET HIM. HE IS A PIG!!!!!!

Sorry

i never did that but i agreed to it. ididnt go through it because i knew i was better then being someone's booty call. trust me he's been through a similar experience. sex can make a person attached

Slept with ex

Put it down to experience and concentrate on yours and your childs future.
Your situation happens so often and you are not stupid. I slept with my ex wife whilst going through the divorce. she then said that as i had slept with her, could i give her some money because she is skint. How did that make me feel. But I am now a single dad and bring up our 3 boys and although stressfull at times wouldnt change it for the world. As for the mistake i made, it was just a bad judgment day and life really does go on and get better. Put it behind you and smile...
Regards

Ian

Not good

Trust me it is not worth it, it just brings back memories and stuff from the past. If he is in your past there is a reason why. He walked away not caring or giving it a second thought and you are the one left with the shame and pain. Not good, you are only hurting yourself you can do better then that! Start by finding someone who will not walk out on you or your son.
Hope this helps
Marlise

"how you could feel better"

Maybe you should try talking to someone you trust and know very well, like your best friend or something like that. Try to talk about how you feel and get to the bottom of it.

There isn't really a thing you can do to make yourself feel better, but just try to accept what happend and get over it (although it's still hard to forget it)

Hi

hi

Forget him

Forget him like yesterday's trash,honey

Not always a bad thing...

Honey, they have not started executed people for sleeping with their exs. If that were the case, I would have been gone by now. 5 years ago me and an ex broke up but continued to fool around a little on the side even tho we were both seeing other people by then. After awhile, we stopped and were just friends. Now, 5 years later, we are happily married and more in love than ever. Sometimes you can still find a happy ending to your very own fairy tales. Good luck.

I totally understand

I was so happy with the father of my child we had great sex until i fell pregnant he doesnt want anything to do with me or the baby but i would do the same thing because i still love him and hes with smeone else now im due nxt week so take comfort in the fact that someone who hasnt actually slept with there ex is telling u they would(and probably will) if i was you i'd feel good knowing that he still fancies you!!!

Well......

hi, how are you add me for fun bigboyy2k4@hotmail.com

Knob

dont be a prick!shes upset u ...

... happens

He should feel bad. Some people take different courses of getting over their ex-partner, you just chose one of them, you are not to blame, you have nothing to feel guilty or sad about. Just try not to do it again, there are plenty of honest and decent men out there to look after you and your son. x x