Am i dull????

Hi,
Me & my fiance don't get to make love much as we're in diff parts of the country at the mo. When we do meet we want to make the most of it but always seem to do the same thing - loads of play then when its time to "enter" he's on top - any thing we can do to liven it up a bit.
I'm really self-conscious so not keen on positions where he sees me stretched out and gets to see my whole body.
Will that annoy him?

Also, a a fair bit it seems to be "that time of the month" - what can be do to be intimate when I've got my period?

Don't worry

with my man when its that time we just put down a plastic sheet and towel and continue on there is nothing wrong doing it at that time of month he seems to really get into it and i am alot more sensitive.

Working on it

To answer your first question, you will annoy him in time, as you both grow closer in intimatincy.
Try this, strip in front of a mirror, really look at yourself, dont compare yourself to anyone, just look at yourself and accept who you are...the addage of loving yourself before you can love others really does have meaning here. Keep in mind, he makes love to you now, therefore he has seen you and accepts you and loves you! Do him the favor of doing the same for yourself and you will grow closer together. Also talk to him about this, your going to marry him right?
As for the period thing, amazing most men dont mind, some even like it more (more luberication for them). Meanwhile relax, enjoy your fiance, make sex erotic, talk to him, tease each other and just play, everything comes with time and experimentation.

Am i dull

i also agree with other reply go down n dry hump im embarressed coz im a big girl but my fella of 6 yrs love s me just turn out lights n relax take control have a few drinks BUT not too many! just relax and go for it bbz like already said when on period go down make sure it is 4 more than few secs try any thing you will soon learn what he likes

Am i dull

wear a sexy nightie so he can not see body then try positions also go down when on period men love it take ur time n take a drink to bed just in case you need it best of luck bbz

Give it a go!

I was like that myself to start off with. But hey, he's your fiancee, mine's only my boyfriend so it's clear ur both in love. I don't think it would put him off in the slightest about oyur body, BE CONFIDENT! You could however, try doggy style, he sees the back of u and not necessarily all of you. Or, you could try bondage of some sort. Try blindfolding him, tease him and then you can take control without having to be embarrassed. I too, seem to get more turned on when i'm on my period, but i tease him by giving him oral sex and dry humping.