He sent me pics with bondage, ties, and shackled women

I am married with an english man since tree years, and we have a very boring marriage. A month ago i have known a guy from swizze by internet. I saw him by webcam and and we talked a lot together, that brought us to one level. He sayes he is in love with me and i have the same feeling for him. I told him at the begin, that i d like to be underneathed and shackled by a man. He sent me at that time 2 very beautyful pics: One with a tied and underneathed woman, and the other with shackles on hands. I felt myself touched of the pics, they were made on qualitative way, not ugly or levelless.

Last time i told him again that i d liked to be underneathed, then he sent me a lot of such pics, with tied and devote women. It was almost too much for me. I was afraid that my friend would only like this of me and begun to be a litte misstrusty. I had the meaning, that one pic had been enough in this situation.

Since he told me his love, he does not call me too often. He has become a little closed and shy to me. I feel that i am important for him and he will visit me in a few weeks. But i am afraid that we entangle ourselves in a kind of love, that i don t want on this way.
I am afraid that i ll be not able to set my limits. Ties and shackles are fine, but they only have reason, if a couple knows itself very good and if there is a fix relationship on the way. I always have the problem that i think i only am loved for my sex. For this i can hardly build a new relationship. With my husband i can not stay anymore, i don t love him enough and we have no more sex. I only hope to find a new love and a fix partner.
What would you think about, if the man who interesses you, d send you 10 pics with bondage, shackles, and ties, after he sayes he loves you? Would you feel you attached? Or would you be enyoeyed?
Thank you for your reply and sorry for my errors i am not english.

Careful

you can have alot of fun in bondage but make sure it is both ways and let him know your not really into this and see what he says, if he really likes you this will not matter. cause in the wrong hands bondage can really be painful.

I agree

I agree with cherished, sounds highly dodgy to me... knock him on the head if I were you!

Be careful...

I think that I would be really careful with any person that I did not know. How long have you been writing to each other and talking on the phone? If a man was to send me all of those pictures I would think that he only wants the sex. I think that if you are looking to have a relationship with this man that I would not immediately go to bed with him. If he really wants a relationship with you he will be willint to wait and get to know you first. If not, then he just wanted sex.