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Fiance gone of sex but still masturbating

Three nights ago we had oral sex and that went ok (he came). Last night we had sex but he said he couldn't cum as he's not been feeling sexy for a couple of weeks and said he had even stopped looking at his internet porn sites. I know this isn't true as I've checked his surfing history and he's been looking most evenings. After sex last night he said he couldn't sleep and went to his office. This morning there are tissues in his office bin that offer evidence of his masturbation. I haven't confronted him as he'd go mad if he knew I'd been checking up on him on his computer. We've been together 3 years and I'm worried that maybe I'm too boring in bed. What's going on in his head? Thanks

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If you can't beat them...join them!

it's not you.. it's him..he's a t****r in every sense of the word!! he's ok to accept oral, but can't make love properly? only thing to do is talk to him and if he won't stop his childish behaviour..and tell him what's good for the goose is also good for the gander! try sneaking off and doing the same yourself...see if he likes it!? good luck scrummy

Tell him you want to help .

Does this turn you on finding the used napkins?
Go in and tell him you want to go to some porn sites !

Then watch each other get off !

You can also go to a bar and you pickup a female for both of you !

We do this all the time .

Talk!

Sex is such an important part of our lives that we must devote time and skill to it. i suggest u talk honestly to ur fiancee and see what the problem is. u may be blaming yourself for a problem that lies not with you. let him know hoe much u love him and how u wish to regain the great sex life u had before. good luck gal!

Talk

defo talk to him, maybe he's got a lot on his mind? is he having problems at work? You need to sort it out girl!

Hi

I replied in Sex, but have you though that he could be having Internet sex with someone online? I know it sounds weird, but it happens...



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