My girlfriend and I recently tried using a strap-on for anal stimulation, she doing me. The experience was great, I loved the prostate stimulation, and she absolutely LOVED doing it. Shes not a real Femdom type or anything like that but she found it to be an enormous turn-off, and it did excite me to see her so excited. She loved being the one doing it to a man. She was already open to receiving anal sex from me so it hasn't a trade off thing, we just agreed we were willing to try almost anything once and it was great, we'll do it again.

Since she wasnt getting any direct stimulation like I was of my prostate, we were surprised how great it was for her, as far as being a turn on. We were curious how many women either really enjoy doing a man with a strap-on, or at least have fantasies of doing that, and why.

My boyfriend and I are have just ordered our first strap-on to try this. It came about as a friend of his was saying how amazing it felt when his girlfriend licked his arse. My boyfriend mentioned this to me and we thought we'd give it a go. Suffice to say I love fingering his arse and licking him and having it done back to me. We have even tried using a small anal vibrator in his arse which we both enjoyed like you wouldn't believe. It's so nice to hear that so many otyhers enjoy this too!

my guy was against it at first but when i fingered him he loved it, s i went out and got a very large strap-on and turned the lights off lube it uo and put it in him he cryied almost but he took it all and now he wants it all the time. he wll cum now when we do it.

Despite what previous correspondents have said, the majority of men and also the majority of women, would get great satisfaction from the girl using a strap-on on her man. The problem is that many men (and maybe women, I don't know being a man) see taking up the arse as an indication that they are gay! Of course this is not so, and in every situation we should do what pleases us. Personally, I love taking up up the arse, be it female (preferably) or male, in the right circumstances. So don't knock it until you've tried it. As for incontinence, read a few medical/gay books on the subject - the best I've found is "Anal Sex for Men" which is available on Amazon.

my gf is obsessed with doing me with a strap on.she loves to lick my ass and her pussy gets dripping wet when she fingers my ass so it def turns her on,i havent warmed up to the idea of geeting rode like a woman yet so we havent tried it yet.i am willing to try a toy first to see if i like it but i still dont understand her wanting to do that to me but i guess it wont make me gay.i just havent got over that idea yet.so yes you are not alone you twisted woman!! just kidding

Well done girl! my boyfriend won't even enter into a discussion about it. how did you both broach the subject?

Uhhh...what is it? Can someone please explain.

im a chick in my 20's i like boys and girls but i love to use a strap on with girls, watching her, touching her, kissing her, and getting her off become the only things i can think about. its like the body parts im not using at that time transfer thier energy to the ones i am using: my eyes, mouth and hands. foreplay for one and more for the other, it really says something to your partner when you want to please them. just watching the penetration into her and getting an incredible reaction can be way more intimate because it isnt something you do with just anyone, you do that with someone you want to watch you someone that makes you feel sexy. although i could cum just listening to her.

Recently whilst giving my man a ... I starting licking is arse and sucking his balls. he went absolutely crazy. loved it which of course made me do it even more. although he's a little scared to go any further, (I did try working his arse with my finger) as he thinks its wrong even though it feels so good. I told him to just relax and go with, we'll see how we go tomorrow night.

I have to admit it does sound like fun the girl dominating the man and giving him pleasure that you could not normally give unless you were another bloke, but I dont think my bloke would let me go newhere near his ass with one of those he's not even happy about my fingers getting close,lol.

it does sound like fun

Well, as my nickname implies, I never had any problem with being double-fisted. Of course it took a long time to achieve and a lot of bigger-than-the-previous anal sex toys/dildoes/dongs etc.
The sensetion is exceptional, like no other!

Until a few days ago, I could fit two fists in my ass, but only if one was inserted after the other, fistly as an open palm and then made a clenched fist (i.e. once inside).
Since last week though, I can fit both hands clenched as a single BIG fist.

Worked in a nursing home for quite sometime, we had this man (gay). He was dying of aids. Any who, at least once a day his rectum had to be pushed back inside because the muscles had been comprimised. He had a colostomy bag because he couldnt deficate...You are going to wind up with some serious problems if you continue on.

sorry that is just WRONG! you fist yourself????? and why would any woman want to do that to a man aswell. its not natural not to mention disgusting.

Surely, anything goes between consenting adults! Try it up the arse - you never know, when you get rid of your hang-ups, you might just enjoy it. If you woman won't, then try a man!!!