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If you give it enough thought ...
Hi,
I'm 36 and me and my husband have a threesome regulary, once a month or so. We have it with the same woman every time.
Anyway, my advice is to give it a lot of thought, and if you then figure that you really want it, go for it. I mean, is your boyfriend also going to have sex with this girl, and are you sure you won't be jealous ? Are you sure sho won't get possessive afterwards ? How far do you want to go with the girl ?
If, after thinking about this, the three of you can agree on some limits and rules, I'd say go for it. For us, it's great every time, but we had thought and talked about it for months before we did it the first time.
About the being gay question ... What is being gay anyway ? Me, I love getting intimate with a woman every now and then, but I don't see myself having a woman as partner.
Anyway, I hope I've helped...
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Threesome
Everybody in this post keeps saying all the bad things about a threesome, and they are absolutly right, there are alot of potential problems with a threesome. But on the other hand a threesome can be a great thing. My wife and I talked about a threesome for about 5 months before we actually had one. She had already been with girls so that part was not wierd. Before hand we told each other the rules and they were fine. DANGER!!!! I have seen alot of people saying that its a good idea to go off with the girl alone before you inolve you bf. Thats a bad idea. Neither one of you should ever spend intimate time alone with you threesome buddy. Thats when jealousy and resentment kicks in. But you should all hang out and make sure there is chemistry before you have sex. Once you have done it a few times you and your bf can start looking for your one night stands. MAIN POINTS!!! Make rules before hand. make sure you are both completely aware of the rules and ok with them. DO NOT say things are ok, like kissing or insertion, unless you are sure you are absolutly ok. He will probably be ok with a lot more then you, but thats ok. Dont lower your standards. Have fun, be safe and dont listen to all the nay sayers.
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Go for it!!!!
try with your bf and another woman then do it with your bf and another man. your bf should be open minded enouigh to have it both ways for you and him. 3somes are most pleasurable. imagine 2 pairs of mouth and hands working on you!!!!! and my wife tells me that most women give better oral sex than man does. lol!
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...and got the t-shirt
I was about 19 when i felt like you. I ended up having a couple of 3sums with my then long term boyfriend.
It was a great experience and i've stayed (platonic) friends with the girls.
I have since split from the man in question but it wasn't related to the threesum.
I'm with a new man now and chances r i would do it again given half a chance
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Hell no
Don't have a threesome with your boyfriend unless you're ready for what might happen next. I've had sex with another female before and my sexuality didn't change a bit, I just did it because I was curious, but it all depends on the person. If you're out there fantasizing about a female then having sex with one will turn your a## out. Think about.
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Threesome
I know exactly how your feeling. I have had fantasies about being with another girl but I am also 100% sure that i AM NOT GAY. So I don't think you have anything to worry about. Do it, get it out of your system. You just have to sure that you are not going to feel jelous seeing your bf sexually with another girl!!!
KitKat x
Keep me posted!!!
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Where do i find a horny girl?
I have thought about it and I understand the implications if i was in a long term relationship that i'd be jealous or he'd run off with her etc.
BUT ... I really wanna try it!
The problem is finding a girl. I've discussed it with friends but that would be too weird. So, if there are any sexy girls out there that want give it a go message me xx
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Finding
Having lived with a very active bisexual lady for 5 years I have learnt how women pich each other up .
Lesbians can recognise each other at a hundred paces - it is all in the eye contact - if you see something you fancy eye lock and look for the reaction .
If the eyelock is held and a smile goes with it, your in with a chance.
If your at a club wait until she's dancing and join her or ask her yourself, chances are she will ask you anyway,
If your in the supermarket after the eyelock and smile find away to start up a conversation then when you are laughing and chatting find a reason to "accidently " touch hands and look for the response ,hold just a bit longer than usual and if the response is positive go for coffee and then let nature take its course.
Of course the little chat and exchange of phone numbers in the "ladies "is always a good idea - lots of luck prowling .
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Im a horny girl
im a horny girl in southern california looking for a threesome. contact me 
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Fantasy can be different to reality!
Hi
I'd been fantasising about girl on girl sex and the opportunity came up when I had a drunken girls' night in with my best friend.
All the kissing etc was really horny but when it came to the sex she was quite rough with me, made me bleed and it just wasn't the soft, sexy and sensuous experience I'd hoped for and imagined!
If you're going to do it I would suggest you try it on your own first in case you don't like it and you also have to ensure you and your boyfriend have a rock steady relationship.
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Curious
Ive always been curious about a threesome with my boyfriend and another girl, my boyfriend would also love it as I have been wondering what it would be like with another person and the only 'faithful way' about it is with a girl.After reading another persons reply I would rather go alone and find a girl first and build some kind of a relationship with her then introduce her to the boyfriend and come up with some 'rules' so that no one can get hurt. Also u'll be more comfortable with exploring the other girl without your boyfriend being there then put a show on for him and allow him to join in. Thats how I would go about it. The problem is finding another girl! Much luck xxx
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Threesome-curious
I've always fantasized about having a threesome with my husband. The fantasies sometimes play out differently, but in the end, all three of us are involved.
I've also been curious about having sex with another girl. Again sometimes it plays out to becoming a threesome with my husband. I've told him about these fantasies & it's usually while we're having way too much fun. I can understand that with the emotional state that you're in at this time, things can look & sound pretty good. But now I'm starting to wonder if I'm just fantasizing about it.
I KNOW that I'm terrified about not looking any where NEAR as hot as the girl involved. Which leads to my next fear. Me being left or cheated on. I've thought about this a lot. We have a pretty good marriage, normal ups & downs. But I can't help but wonder what will happen if we actually go through with it.
I don't DARE talk to any of my friends. Sure we joke about threesomes & group sex but THAT'S IT.
Any suggestions for someone curious?
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Sexy fit amd willing to give it a go
hi im a 18 year old and im live in darlington me and my fionce have alwasys wanted to try new things and explore in the bedroom department i would like to meet you and talk about wat you want before we make any sexual contact if dat is ok
please email me back from rebecca quinn
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Threesome
Hi, would love to chat about this subject?
what is your e-mail address?
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Dont think its a good idea
I really think a threesome with your bf is a bad idea. They can be lots of fun between friends or a 1night stand etc, but bringing another person into a loving relationship can only cause trouble. Can you actually imagine watching you bf having sex with another woman? I know it would drive me crazy and i would forever be wondering if she was better than me. I have heard of a situation like yours when a couple invited a girl to have a 3some with them and they loved it so they did it again on several occations but then the boy had sex with the new girl without his partner and she was obviously so upset, but he couldnt really understand why because he was already alowed to sleep with the other woman so he couldnt see the difference! Thats just how guys think! Maybe ask your bf if he thinks that you being with another woman counts as being unfaithful... then maybe its better to try it on your own. if he doesnt want you to do it then why ruin a good relationship. Please let me know what you think but i strongly advise you not to bring another woman into your lives. girls can be so tricky and bitchy! good luck love amelia
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Threesome
My girl is 25 and I am 27, we have a 20 y/o guy that would love to do this for us, we both are looking forward for this weekend.
Martin
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Same situation...
hey my names aleshia..im having the same exact thing going on well kinda. my boyfriend and i made a deal that i would give him a threesome with another girl and him (because i would like to experience that as he would) if he gave me one with another guy and him. so he did and now the only problem is i cant find a girl. My friends are not like that and they are who i would trust the most. There is one girl my boyfriend keeps bringing up cause she would prob do it but she has slept with a ton of guys and i dont know if i want her near my boy since before me he was a virgin! its a sucky situation! please write back
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Hi
If your boyfriend was a virgin before he slept with you, is it really a good idea to bring another woman to him? As after sleeping with her he might decide that he wants to experiment with other girls too. xx
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