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Me too
I had lots of experiences when younger and have always wanted to experiment more. so when my partner recently drunkinly suggested a threesome with mate we both went 4 it. was fantastic first time, but when did again he pissed me off by paying all attention to bm pushin me out. luckily it was me she wanted not him and we have had some great foolin round times without him. not gone all the way yet, cant wait though. so horny. think it mite be better with stranger though, less complicated.
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And so have i....
I have never been with a woman, but i have fantasized about it more times than i can count. Like most of you, I wouldn't want a loving relationship! I most likely wouldn't want to see her again either, but at 38 I would like to try it once. Obviously I would want to do all the things I have fantasized about (thats a big agenda). I think for women its all about the tenderness and an opportunity to do something that was once heavily frowned upon.
any takers lol?
haydengreene69@yahoo.com
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Same
i'm pretty much the same
girls are too...full of drama
guys are simple minded creatures
most times easier to deal with
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Love or sex
it'a a strange thing. i know it sounds selfish but i know what you mean. I've had 2 girl/girl experiences and i could enjoy sex with a woman, but not 'fall in love' with one 
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Karla here
hi reader, i am karla mathews 24yrs female in lakemarry florida, i like to have strong short term relations for pleasure and satisfaction.
if you desire contact me at karla_mathews at yahoo.com
good night
Karla
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Go for it!
Good for you I say.
Not selfish at all. Your sexuality is your own preference.
It's good to experiment....more fun so yes you should and DONT FEEL GUILTY whatever you do!
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I agree
I also experimented when i was young sometimes it sounds too young to be true (11 yrs old). I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for 4years now and too would love to play with a women but not have a relationship with her-pretty much a one night stand, your not the only one. But my boyfriend would prob like to watch  U know how men are. But I definately don't think it's selfish as long as the women you want to play with is aware that you dont want a relationship.
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Help
I'm 25 and I have NEVER been with another woman, but I fantasize about it all the time. I feel so guilty because I am with a wonderful man and I only want to have a relationship with him. But I feel like I need to experience it at least once--I don't want a relationship with another woman-just fun. My question to you is since you have experienced it, did this make you long to do it more? And even if someone like me were to approach this, how can you tell if someone else is interested in the same?? I would NEVER be with any of my friends but I know they have all thought about this themselves--seems pretty common.
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Hey
i am using my sign but it is not obvious. i like women, but i am just not sure. ilike the sexul way women lookand the way they show themselves off, but i dont know how i should feel towards people that are sexually attracted towards women. i like women, i think they are sexy etx, but im not sure what i should do
help
emsiedoo@hotmail.com
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Try swinging clubs...
...selfish or not, you might find what you are looking for.
Loguil, a woman himself and bicuriously satisfied.
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Am the same
just wanted tae say in know how i feel, i have fantasised about women in a sexual way but neva done anything as other than my hubby i aint really spoke about it to anyone as am not sure how my friends would take it.
I don't think it is selfish at all.
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There's plenty
of women who feel the same way you do.
Lots of them keep fantasizing about it and others make their dream come true. 
I consider myself being a bisexual woman. However, I would not want to have a relationship with a woman, I just like to have sex with women occasionally. But that doesn't happen very often, it seems to be very difficult.
Why don't you put an advert in the paper or magazine? Or go to a gay club, like someone else below already suggested. You've got nothing to lose. Just make clear what you want. Look out for another bicurious or bisexual woman - don't choose a lesbian. Don't get me wrong, I don't have a problem with lesbians, but they are very often looking for a steady relationship and don't want to be used for your experiments and experiences.
There's lots of girls like you out there. I am sure there is one you'll feel attracted to.
Good luck!
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How do u know????
have for long time wondered about being with another woman..like u would not want a relationship with a woman but is a something i feel i want to experience one day.
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Nothing selfish about it...
Just wanted to give you a chin up. There is nothing selfish with you wanting to explore yourself and your desires. This is how we discover exactly who we are and what makes us tick. I have been asking myself alot of questions for years and was too afraid to go looking for the answers, but since my recent marriage, my husband has made it possible for me to explore myself better without feeling there is anything wrong with it. We have expanded ourselves as a couple and we are not only learning about ourselves but about each other as well and it is making all the difference in the world where our marriage is concerned. Good luck with your journey to explore yourself. I wish you all the best.
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Not selfish
I bet there are loads of women who are curious in the same way but not interested in a relationship - why not go to a gay night at a local club - if you're freaked out, leave - if you see someone you like, take them home!
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Not selfish
I bet there are loads of women who are curious in the same way but not interested in a relationship - why not go to a gay night at a local club - if you're freaked out, leave - if you see someone you like, take them home!
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You r not on ur own
lots of women feel like that
Im similiar to you as ive been with another when i was younger too..
You only have to try ... im bit scared case someone finds out and looks atme different.... but its a horny thought.. lol.. a
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Hmmmm
I too am in a relationship with a man, but sometimes think i would like to try something with a woman... the idea turns me on. I think if it came to it tho i would probably bottle... but i just don't know!!
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Know what u mean!
Am happily married with kids but lately have been crazy to explore feminine side a bit more if u get the drift. Maybe I'm pre-menapausal or something. Think it would be pretty horny whatever. Maybe I get a book. Might make life easier all round!
Good luck
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Feel the same
Ive always been curious like that but have always been afraid about how people will act if they found out. silly really. anyway im going away to uni in sept and im goin to be open with myself. i dont want to be regretting that i never did anything about it all my life. If u feel that u would like to trt sex with a women. Go for it.
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