Serious problem in sex

I have very big problem with my sex feelings. I never interested in the sex and when I get married and my husband go for sex with me I was always as dead women. I never feel anything when he touches me, mass me and intercourse with me.

Can anyone tell me that what is the real problem and how can I resolve it?

U don't feel sex

there r several reasons for that like 1rst of all if u love him or not..if yes & its only problem inside u...the best way of feeling sex sometimes is not doing but by talking sexy things with eacth other..try to know his fantacies & may be u can learn from him how should u think abt sex as he thinks abt it..So it will help u in arousing ur sex feelings..try to watch sexy movies not triple x movies but doubles x movies in which u will also see stroy in that so try to do it in ur personal life..feeling sex is not all abt doing it but also taking sexy with other & thinking abt it..first of all make ur self relax & give a new start to it..rply me if wanna discuss anything else

The engine is jammed

Try this,

Lubricate yourself down there and imagine the hottest fantasy you ever had, saw, would like to be done to you and run your two fingers on the outer lips of your .... in such a way that they join over the section which hoods your little pleasure pearl.
After some time when you feel the bud opening , your can rim the same way on the internal lips, avoid peaking.

Do it three four times a day , you will want your hubby more than he can possibly give.
Sangeeta, Just that you are out of practice and then if you are not in friendship with your body sex is impossible.

Sex problems

I wish it was that easy. I have been with my husband almost 7 years total. We have been married for 1 year. I have found that majority of the time I feel the same way. I don't feel anything. I have to really let myself relax and thing of something or someone that arouses me. I have tried to give him some direction, but he hasn't listened too well. I do love him very much and he is the father of my child.
An interesting twist to my story....
I have been dreaming of a man from my past whom I love very much. There was passion in and out of the bedroom. Our past was 12 years ago. I finally contacted him to get some closure. well we both have found we still have feeling for each other. We have not seen each other or done anything except talk on the phone.
so tell me what do I do???????

Just play the game

I think you are expecting too much. Have a glass of wine or find a way to relax..hot bath & candles , nice meal..get into the habit of expressing in sounds even the slightest feelings , moans groans,wiggles..participate play along, you will get in to a better mental place about it. Stroking, touching tickling teaing are a good start, don't ruch to the full thing that's half the fun, the build-up. Enjoy playiong with this new toy...him...men have the tool, it can make you feel happy, so you need to build up the confidence to please him and yourself with it...he won't complain. think that you are someone else...then you won't feel silly. I like to pretend I am a prostitute, or the boss lady.Also buy a litle buzzy something and play around with your own feelings, (I love the ann summers pretend lipstick)learn how to pleasure yourself and then he can be taught how to do the same. I like sexy books, ann summers do them, I bet you can even get some on e-bay. Sexy videos make me feel a bit fat, but you can learn a lot of techniques from them. You are missing a lot my love and you sound like somone who deserves so much more...
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Do you love him?

Was this a marriage of your choice? if you don't love him that's not your fault but there is not much you can do in the relationship if you dont feel attracted to him.