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Am i too young?

hi everyone, i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and we love each other with all out hearts! i moved in with him about 3 months now and everything is going great i think he is going to propose to me asap because i found a receipt in his pocket for a white gold ring costing a hell of a lot of money! im 19 in April and was wondering am i too young for marriage or engagement i really want to say yes!! can anyone tell me what im in for? has anyone married at my age? and how did that go? please wb than you

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Hi

I was 21 when I got married in 2003, we are still very happily married and have an 18 week old daughter.

My husband and I met in July 2000 at my 18th birthday party, started properly seeing each other in November 2000, got engaged three weeks later in December 2000, bought a house together in March 2002, got married in July 2003 and had our beautiful daughter in September 2008. We decided we were ready to get engaged, buy a house and get married and then enjoy our marriage for a while before children so we did all the things we wanted to do, completely did up the house - went ski-ing and really enjoyed our time together. We are as much in love now as we were 8 years ago and are the best of friends. Nobody knows if you are ready apart from you. Just because you get engaged it doesn't mean you have to get married or have a family right away, just do whats right for you.

Good luck

Jo xx

Am i too young?"

If you feel like your too young then maybe you are but if you love this person and could see your relationship lasting forever then i say go for it. or maybe you can be engaged for at least two years see if this guy is really the one and if you still want to be with him after the two years then go from there but you all haven't been together that long and things can start to unravel if you know what i mean. I say to wait it out and don't rush into anything.

Married young

I married at 19 and we were together for 12 years. What happened was we or probably I - changed developed and grew during those years so I ended up being quite different from him as he did not change. However we did have some good years together. You don't know how you will be as everyone is different. if you have moved in together and you can honestly say you are really happy and there are no warning signs that you are ignoring I would say go for it! Of course there is another view - why are you getting married? Is it better financially? Hopefully you are not terribly rich and hes after your money My experiences are if you are married or not its the same relationship and divorce is a lot of hassle and expense. Its your life - make the most of it in whatever way makes you happy!!!

Jababe

I met my husband when I was 14yrs old and married him when I was just 17, had my 1st child by 18 and by 23 I had a further 2 children, we were married until 2007 so that was nearly 23yrs, the only reason we are not together is he died on New Years Day.
I say if your happy and it's want you want...go for it. hopefully you'll be as happy as I was.... GOOD LUCK

"am i too young?"

Age is just a number, its how you feel that counts. To be honest, 7 months is a very short time and you cannot get to know someone in that time. Follow your heart and do not feel pressured into something that you are not ready for as that wont work. Maybe its just a birthday/early xmas pressie? x

Hey

i am 17 and i have just got engaged, so i dont think u are to young
as long as u love him nothing in the world should matter

Married

i dont think you are too young as long as you are sure we got married at 16 and are still together 46 years later,all the best,

Hi

hi i dont think your too young to get married because im 19 and have been with my fella for 9 mnths and wer gettin married in july this year we live together and work together too.when you kno sum1 is the right person it doesnt matter what other people think if your ready for a big comitment go for it......all the best hun good luck

sarah xx

17!!!!!

i was 17 when i got married, im now 19 and still happily married. no kids but i think i need some more time with him by ourselves... marriage is amazing when its with the right person and you take your commitment seriously. dont be foolish to think its easy or not a big deal. it is but as i say when its right its the best.......... really the best!!!!!
-x- if you need more advice or specifics private message me..

I dont think so.

my name is amy...and i am nineteen...just turned nineteen, and my boyfriend and i have been dating just over five months...and only known each other for eight. and we are planning on getting married. Just the other day i saw a jewelers card in his wallet (i was just looking at his cute nineteen year old drivers license,he's 21) just the other day...i knew was researching style options (he told me) but i didnt know he was looking into it that much. I love him. and i will say yes when he proposes. If you two are compatible and you know for certain (just make sure you are) then go for it. Love amy



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